Yes, it is indeed one of the worst feelings imaginable. I'm so sorry your are currently stuck there. It is just so unfair.

Yep, I know the feeling of being stuck. I've been trying to do new things - joined a gym, looking at a fall class, started Facebook - just to shake myself up.

grizzly, maybe you should try to find a group of other people going through divorce in your area. you shouldn't be so alone right now. i know what it's like and it really hurts.

Yup. She did that. And that's what she thought was best for her, regardless of carnage left behind.

I've done it, and it's been done to me. It takes everything in my power, and I fail miserably to not take it personally, but it isn't.

Grizz, you ever break it off with a girl? She may have felt the same crap you are now. I'm not saying that to incite anything, but it's less personal than we make it.

Yes, same here. I hate sitting at home being tortured with my feelings, but also hate having to come to work when I know I can't focus!! It's just so unfair...

dump3d...I have and thats a good way at looking at it. Not that it makes it easier but if it went down the way it did, she obviously wasn't the right person for me.
Life goes on just sucks to think about her.

I know that the guy who broke up with me isn't hurting at all over this and that makes me hurt even more. They just pick up and move on unaffected while we pick up the pieces.