Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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GuyInDarkness 02/16/2013

About to give my ex her stuff back... Been almost 2week since seeing her.. I really don't want to breakdown...

deleted_user 02/16/2013

I would have someone drop it off for you. Its hard to see your ex when the wound is still fresh that's why I won't talk to my ex or see him.

ChiTownBear 02/17/2013

I think we all know what its like to have to do this task.

I would suggest the same as #1, try to find someone else to get her stuff to her. Do you have an outdoor shed or storage unit you can put it at so she can retrieve it from there? Another suggestion would be not to just let her come in when you are not there and take what she feels she hers. I did that and ended up with damaged floors, stuff that was mine she took cus I had "two" of the item and she felt I didn't need two, not to mention other broken items and stuff thrown all over for no reason.

stay strong and find a solution that works for you and her.

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