Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Has anybody left after 4 yrs of trying?
I remember I knew our marriage was over by 2006. Probably before that, but I remember thinking and saying it at that point. I did not love my husband, he did not love me, and our dynamic had become unhealthy and abusive. We separated many times but always got back together. I was so paralyzed with fear that I could not exist without him! Finally, with significant outside intervention, we separated for good in 2013 and are almost done with our divorce.
So it took 7 years (at least 7, probably more) and years of therapy and what feels like a million times trying to leave countered by a million times of trying to make it better. The day he left for good it was like opening a window and taking a deep breath after 15 years of holding it in. Better late than never.