Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Alyssa117 05/15/2013

Why is he torturing me? I don't get it. Why does he keep bringing his replacement gf over knowing I'm physically injured so I can't leave? This makes no sense.

charliegirl29 05/15/2013

are you able to tell them to get out or do they live there. sounds like hes an insensitive jerk.

deleted_user 05/15/2013

Hi Alyssa: What I read of your posts, you had a very traumatic accident that left you in need of help so you live with him and his family because you don't have the resources to leave. It's been nice of all of them to have you there. You said you also talked shit as you put it, about him to others and then regretted it later. It's apparent that you two are broken up.

He has moved on and is with another girlfriend and sadly that happens in life. If you are to remain in the home of his family and him, you will have to work hard on getting past the fact that he has another girlfriend and brings her home to his family--that is okay and normal and really none of your business. If you start getting mad or say ANYTHING, you could be dumped somewhere as someone else's problem.

If you can't get past all this, you will have to talk with social workers and arrange to get on some sort of long-term care and be taken elsewhere to get help with your disabilities. But if you bite the hands that are giving you help, you will probably regret it. Take care and many hugs.

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