What did you do?

You didn't drop the "L" bomb, did ya??? If you did, that will scare any man.

Have you tried to call him Charity?

You know, something like: "It's been a while since we talked, I was wondering if you had any plans for the weekend?" Not too pushy, just something to start the conversation off.

Maybe she dropped the " M " word on him.

needing full story here....

Serious in three weeks? How did you scare him pretty bad? How won't he give you a chance? Can't you give you advice without more info.

Ok here is the story. I haven't had a good nights sleep in 5 months. I took some new sleeping meds and when I started feeling the effects I sent him a text message saying "I can't take not sleeping anymore. I just took some sleeping pills and hopefully I wont wake up. If I don't answer my phone the back door is unlocked." He called me a short time later and told me he was coming over but I was so out of it I don't know what happened after that. Later I read another text I don't remember sending him that said "Why do you put up with me I am not worth it". I don't remeber anything that happened that night so anyway that is the story.

I think I might have the answer but I don't want to sound like a pig.

Send me a private message then. Trust me after my ex husband no one can be worse than that.

People are in suspense here! No secrets!

BTW, I have also learned not to text after taking sleeping pills. Maybe they should put that as a warning on the Ambien CR commercials right after, "Some people may experience depression or thoughts of suicide."

WARNING: Side affects may include texting stupid messages to the guy you like. Do not mix with alcohol.

LAMO that is so true

Sounds like an unnecessary cry for attention don't you think?

What would prompt you to say such a thing?

"I hope I don't wake up"

If I were him, I would think, train wreck, next.

wow, what's it going to be like in 22 more years?

stop messing with drugs and learn to love yourself

there's plenty of the world to see

let the scared run free

I ment that I hope I would sleep and wouldn't wake up after 10 minutes. I wasn't trying to overdose.

Seriously guys you're going to make me tell her? I always have to do the dirty work. But here it goes.

"..things got pretty serious.." I can only take this to mean in the 3 weeks you've known him you slept with him. I say this because that's the only way I've known things to get serious so fast. It seems to me things got pretty serious for you and not him. If he's a young man I'd say it's pretty typical as young men are not really interesting in anything serious at all if they can help it. If he was a significanly older guy then shame on him. Either way neither one of them were ready for the drama of you and your pill taking. I say 'shame on you" for that. I think you did know what you were doing when you sent the message because you told him that the door would be open, which would lead any and everyone to believe you were making a cry for help. In the future you might want to cut that out.