I hear u my husband left me and moved out he's living with his mom but already has another woman and I just found out he's with her this weekend. It's horrible I need to move on but still want him back. I feel pathetic.

I know how you. Feel I'm in a similar situation in that I'm still hoping there might be something that can be salvaged even though I think deep down it may be over
But when all you have is a glimmer of hope and you love someone you will make choices that are irrational but like me you will hope even is there is none
I feel your pain hope things work out for you one way or another

I feel like he is turning into another person so easily. He left for work at 6am. I woke up from sleeping on the couch and he was so cold already. I am such a fool. I have to grab my clothes to wear for two weeks today and made a promise of no calls or texts. I think he made up his mind that it's over and been along time coming. I think deep down I know it is too. But I'm so scared

If you also know it's over, use that fear to propel you forward. Don't wait for two weeks to be up before you make plans, you could end up on the street. Investigate new places to live (hopefully you have a job?) and reach out to friends or family who can give you emotional support. Try not to turn to anything bad (booze, meds, another guy) to ease your pain, just acknowledge it and try to move through it.

You don't speak of any issues you've been having, but hopefully you've had conversations with him as to why he wants to break up with you. If this is coming out of left field, ask him directly why he wants the split. If not working toward reconciliation (sounds like he's out) at least it might give you some peace of mind and some closure. Just be warned that you may never get that if he chooses not to discuss anything.

So your husband has put you in "time out" for two weeks? And why do you have to leave? If he needs 2 weeks to decide if he is interested in keeping you around, why doesn't he go someplace? And he will decide if you are permitted to return? Oh, honey...you need to grow a pair and stand up to this guy

Thank you for telling me to stand up for myself.
I am so willing to make it work I just agreed to do it. I even just did a bad thing because at 9am I had a emotional break down and left him a voice message and text him to ask him to please wait for 2 weeks before he starts cutting all ties and falling out of love with me. Before today He said he was in love but are not compatible living together.. Am I a fool so for calling and texting him? Common sense tells me I am because I can't ever stick with my word or promises. I got overwhelmed by my saddened. I started wellbutrin 10 days ago. I hope it helps.

Why do you have to move out for 2 weeks, why doesn't he? Sounds like he needs the space but it must be confusing to you. IF he has done this before, I would tell him to take a hike, but if it is the first time, let him go for a few weeks and you can stay in your home

Let him move out. Once you are out you will not have a home. He's manipulating you. He won't let you back in. Tell him to go.

I agree with the others...you should not have to move.

Is the house marital property, or was it his before the marriage? If the home belongs to both of you, he should be the one to move out and think things over. Start finding out your rights with regard to the marital property. Don't move out if your name is on the deed to that house. I would advise you not to trust his word about anything anymore.

Don't worry that you called and texted him. He pulled the rug out from under you. You can't expect not to be a little wobbly. One thing I have learned is the importance of being kind to yourself. Pretend you are somebody else like a sister or a dear friend. How would you act towards that person if they were going through the same thing? Treat yourself that way. At the same time, fight for yourself. Just because you agreed to leave doesn't mean you can't change your mind. Too bad if he doesn't like it.

It sounds like there's a whole lot more to this story that you're not divulging.