Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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overwhelmednc 07/07/2015

Hey, I'm new here. I was wondering if some of you would mind telling me your story of how you told your significant other you wanted a separation/divorce? I'm planning on having "the separation talk" and don't know exactly how to go about initiating the subject. I don't want to be ugly or argumentative, but I do want to let him know I am separating from him for an indefinite amount of time. Thanks, ya'll.

gem111 07/07/2015

I do not know your husband, but if he is on drugs and cheats on you, I would definitely would want to put my finances in order so he couldn't take everything for himself when you told him you wanted to separate.
I would definitely talk to a lawyer and get their advice before I said anything to him.
Good luck

lostsoul72 07/07/2015

I agree with Gem111 !
You need to look out for yourself and if you even think he may be abusive then get to a safe place and then have him served papers.

dylanmurphy 07/07/2015

As someone who was told I was separating, be honest, say what you need too, and remember if you have kids in common do what can do to protect the kids from the fall out.

Good luck, not an easy conversation for either side. Prayers are with you.

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