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Hi , Has anyone had our is having the experience of always categorizing Their outbursts, as just the Truth about the other person on the receiving end of the outburst ,and.In their head they believe they are just trying too help you.. Is that just normal Dissociation or projection the sufferer exhibits or just Co-dependency?I hope this question is clear Everything revolves around the reaction and the attack just stating" The Truth" as a reason for The outburst.
Very concerned,
Billy
Very concerned,
Billy
I think that a lot of people have victim issues and project them on other people they get defensive and lash out sometimes just way too much and not neccessarily at the right people. In many different forms abuse, terrorism,verbal abuse, even re-enactments. if the person gets help they will stop their lashing out
What I' m trying to do is understand or (self diagnose someone else) ,not good I know, I just want to understand or just let go!!! ,as I"m not the object of the projection anymore.What the question meant other than confusion, hurt feeling and me still letting this be my problem .She is still renting space in my Head for Free . I thought that someone else may had the experience of justifying all their outbursts and chasing people away, by just believing in their head they were right each time this occurs and that all she is just afflicted with not .being able to sensor herself in most of her interactions with others and that she does not have a problem, everyone else does. I have witnessed this happening in all areas of her life and she has told me the same kind of story I experienced -many times with her whole family and almost everyone in her life and she is 42.I now I need to just let go!!! Does it sound like BPD.
Billy