Bladder Cancer Support Group
Bladder cancer is a disease in which abnormal cells in the bladder multiply without control. The greatest risk factor for bladder cancer is a genetic predisposition; it's also associated with smoking and occupational exposure to certain dyes (such as in textile factories), petrol and other chemicals. If you or a loved one has been diagnosed with bladder cancer, we're here...
I would encourage you to call and talk to the doctor for answers and even a support group for you .From your post ,I am more concerned about you ...the one who feels powerless due to your brothers actions.
I am so sorry about your brother! And I agree, that you should definitely consult your brother`s doctor in order to get appropriate response regarding this long period of waiting. There must be a good explanation.
Take care!