Hi , I have just come across this page and hopefully can get support and advise from anyone in similar situation.

Ive been married 13 years been together 16 years and have 2 kids, before I got married I was always single and never really had relationships, my wife was my first true love. We have been very happy in our marriage but I had been hiding something from my wife for all these years and that was I had interest in bisexual activity, I have never had a sexual attraction to men but have enjoyed chatting to them and posting pictures on web sites, not sure why but I go into this "zone" when I'm on them and don't realise what I'm doing is

now here is where it gets bad , my wife has caught me 7 times on gay sites and pictures on my phone, she has forgiven me the last 6 times, she has even accepted me as bisexual and was willing to try more things in the bedroom but I was always too afraid to act on those things incase she didn't like it so I kept it to myself again until now the 7th time she has called it time, we are separated and I'm moving out, it's not so much what I was doing it was the continued lieing and decete.

i have registered myself with a councillor for help which will hopefully answer questions.

i am giving this 100% in the hope she forgives me again, I have accepted I'm bisexual but it's whether or not my wife want this part of me in her life.

if anyone is in similar situations or has advise I would love to hear from you, I know I don't deserve another chance but I'm going to try 

thanks