Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
i feel really guilty but not cuz my mom or family wont approve my choice in attraction but wat i did tonight.
i went to a house get together ..i wasnt drinking and the host of the thing is a girl and she was drunk as hell and asked if she could kiss me so i said sure,..i dont know her i just knew she was my brothers friend.....and so we made out for a long while. i liked it and she sai di was a good kisser.
then she told this guy that we should kiss and he asked me if it was o and so i said yeah and we made out.
what makes me feel so bad is that i just met tho people today and i made out with them...i feel like a slut.
i feel like a bad person.
i notice that im more attracted to women than men...when this guy i made out with asked me whats my type..i didnt really have a detailed type for men as i did for women.
i was wondering if i can get some support?
i went to a house get together ..i wasnt drinking and the host of the thing is a girl and she was drunk as hell and asked if she could kiss me so i said sure,..i dont know her i just knew she was my brothers friend.....and so we made out for a long while. i liked it and she sai di was a good kisser.
then she told this guy that we should kiss and he asked me if it was o and so i said yeah and we made out.
what makes me feel so bad is that i just met tho people today and i made out with them...i feel like a slut.
i feel like a bad person.
i notice that im more attracted to women than men...when this guy i made out with asked me whats my type..i didnt really have a detailed type for men as i did for women.
i was wondering if i can get some support?
There was a younger girl at some parties I would frequent when I was your age and she seemed really nuts about me. She had her bf and I had mine...but she still spent every party running up to me excitedly, jumping up so she straddled my waist, and kissing me passionately LOL
She kept saying I was pretty etc...
I felt like an asshole and I told her one time (before she got totally hammered) that I hoped she didn't think I was taking advantage of her bc she was younger and I wasn't trying to just "get her"--that I cared about her feelings...
She thought I was silly LOL and said "I know what I'm doing--we're just having some fun it doesn't have to mean anything"
And I realized hell yeah we're both grown ups and we can do what we want. Who is this invisible force putting rules on everything??
you're fine honey! All part of the process of growing up and learning what attracts you!
yeah the girl at the party was the same as the girl at ur party....jumping up and down saying how pretty i was asking me to sit next to her and then ultimately asked if she could kiss me. honestly i did have fun....but even tho the girl wasnt ugly or anything shes not really my type so i wasmt attracted to her.
i ask that question all the time lol...u know my old hs teacher told me that she sensed a gay vibe on me...and being bi wouldnt suprise and then she said that she doesnt believe in bisexuality that ur either gay or ur not. i dont exactly call myself bi i just say i likr guys and girls. lol
but u know ...i wanna be married to a man and have kids etc. one day.
Straight AND gay people love to say we have to be like them. But we're not. I wish people would just accept it.
Glad you're feeling better about this :) You don't deserve any guilt or shame over such innocent fun :)