Bisexuality Support Group

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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angellore88 08/21/2018

Hello, I am a woman living a straight life always had boyfriends. Right know almost 30. Only some lesbian sexual experimentation with some close friends. During times I have been single I have subtly try to get lesbian girls to notice me, but I feel like I am not the type of woman other woman go for. Before going into details I would lime to mention that I lime femenine looking woman. As for me I am very girly, big fake boobs hehe, long blonde hair, etc, great for caughtin male attention but as for woman attention I feel like my physique and style are not what lesbians find desirable. I see most lesbians like tomboys and they seem to turned off by a kind of “fake” looking woman like me, I mean I am not super fake looking but I’m not the most natural looking girl either. My question is, are there femenine lesbians out there that like girls like me? I am very unexperienced in this whole lesbian dating scene.

justmaybe83 09/03/2018

Not true, bisexuals and lesbians can like both type.

art4life19 09/13/2018

Yes there are women that are into different types of women. I am a Bisexual woman I dress fem. I like fem women. I am not turned off by a woman that is butch or more masculine in dress. I dated a lesbian woman and because she only likes women and i like men and women we are no longer together. I happen to love a woman with nice breasts it doesn't matter if they are real or fake. It sounds to me like you have to go to places to meet women that date women otherwise if you are fem they can think you are straight and off limits.

angellore88 09/14/2018

Thanks for your reply art4life19. I don’t even know how to hit on woman haha, any advice or dating app that you recommend?

art4life19 09/15/2018

It is my pleasure to help or give advice when I can . Well I don't do the whole dating app thing I probably should give that I try. It helps to be in a place that you know the women are into other women. Don't want to hit on a straight woman and get turned down because she is not interested. I go about it the same way I go about extending friendship in the begining plus it is always good to take your time getting to know someone. But I think it is good to be straight forward and direct and honest. If you think a woman is beautiful tell her. If you like her hair or her outfit tell her. But when a woman is interested in you and you let her know you are interested sparks can fly and you can tell them that you like them as more than a friend. You know flirting with women is not that different from flirting with men. You have to let them know you are interested in them and that it is not in just the typical friendly female fashion that has nothing to do with sexual attraction. It depends some women are slow at picking up on the fact that you like them in a sexual way. I have to admit one or the hardest places for me to be is at church when all the gorgeous women are all dressed up and looking their best. I have to be polite and not come on to them. I go to a regular non denominational church. If I went to a UU church it would be a different story. At church people don't know I'm Bisexual and it doesn't exactly go well with the Christian beliefs to be attracted to someone of the same sex. Everyone in the church that is single is trying to find a boyfriend or a husband not a girlfriend or a wife.

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