Hi I can't tell you what your sexuality is but from what you shared I can tell that you are curious. Don't be in a rush to label yourself. Feel free to be honest with yourself and others about your feelings and feel free to explore your sexuality and to learn what it is that you like don't like and what you are comfortable with. allow yourself time to get to know yourself and what it is that you really enjoy and what you are comfortable with. You will be able to make choices based on that but you have to give yourself time and explore and do your homework first. These questions are not that easy to answer but we all have the answers inside of ourselves we just have to listen.

Religiously straight heterosexual women detest both the thought and, the participation in lesbian sex. My current partner detests the thought of lesbianism. My previous partner was bi-sexual, she was also a sexual assault victim, is it possible you are too? You have what you consider to be an abnormally high sex drive, sexual abuse is a known cause of that.

If your heterosexual partner is failing to fulfill your needs, fantasizing over another heterosexual partner is usually considered the norm. Whenever I fantasize, it is always over women and never men, correct, I've never been sexually abused.

You exhibit signs of one whom has been sexually abused, I pray that I am wrong.

I have never never been sexually abused, I had 2 instances where a guy tried to force themselves on me but I was able to stop it thank God. I have always had this attraction to females, not sure why. My ex was very open to me experimenting if I wanted to(which I just never got the chance) I am not sure I could actually do it if it came down to it tho, no matter how badly I want to.

I'm pleased to hear you have never been sexually abused, which appears then that we come back to your lazy husband and/or previous partners of the same elk. My next suggestion then is that you teach your husband your preferred way of being treated when it comes to bedtime physical activity between you (notice I call sex bedtime physical activity instead, that's because I believe the word sex is cheap, a quickie only satisfies one partner and cheats the other), and if he fails to play ball inform him of your possible intention to find it elsewhere.