My wife whom I married in August 07 freely admitted when we first started dating two years ago that she was bisexual and bipolar. I figured that this relationship would be hard at best. Here is the thing we got married in august of 07 and she has already had an affair with a woman starting in the beginning of October and after accusing her of doing this for months I finally had proof last month due to her cell phone text messages. She says she loves me and that I am the only one with who she wants to be with and that she doesnt know why she did it (she says she was under allot of stress) and this woman with whom she had the affair with befriended her, this woman knowing she was bi got her drunk and moved in on her thats how it started then she got her hooked on texting what dirty thing the were going to do to each other. After allot of crying, talking and her finally telling me everything about this affair we are still together. She also admitted that while I was working on St.Patricks day last year 07 she went to a lesbian bar and was kissing and making out with friends while she was there. I knew what happened but she never admitted to it. So my question is does this sound like someone who truly wants to be married to a man and stay in a marriage? I tend to look at her track record she was only with women for 20 years before me and before that it was a mix most of men including me (we were engaged for a few months) is she just trying to be heterosexual for appearance sake? I don't know. What do you think? I think I already know.