Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
my wonderful husband has decided to set up a lil get together with our wedding officiant/marriage counselor for sat night. I am just super thrilled but honseslt scared sh***less as to what he is going to ask/talk about. I ve tried meeting with him a few weeks ago about the bible and bisexuality but he never really got back with me on it so i gave up and figured that maybe he finds it to awkward to talk about with me. A month later ive had no luck in my research in the bible about weather or not i am doomed to hell so i left the church. it hurt to tell my husband i told him i just dont see God any more i feel as if he left me, now his response was God didnt leave me i left him. after that i decided it was deff. time i left the church. things blew over and calmed down n all but my husband wants me to go back to church badly that he set up for this meeting with our marriage counselor. If i am told im going to hell, and that i am an aboination then why go to somthing that i just dont belong? My husband is a big believer sometimes i am jealous of his strong faith in Christ. He believes i choose this and why cant i just repent? thats like asking someone with depression to repent and feel happy, sometimes you cant help what you feel.
I felt like ranting today thank u for reading :-)
I felt like ranting today thank u for reading :-)
I have already posted these links in the 'for bisexual Christians' post but they are comprehensive and scholarly articles on why Homosexuality is not condemned in the BIble
A letter to Louise was written by a retired Baptist minister and can be accessed here; http://www.godmademegay.com/ This is an affirmation of homosexuality abnd a well argued explanation of why homosexuality is not condemned by the Bible - even if certain verses may appear to say so on a surface reading.
The second link refers to a blog post by a Presbiterian Minister entitled clobbering 'Biblical' Gay bashing and can be accessed here: http://www.thegodarticle.com/7/post..
Further more you know my broad position on the matter. That Leviticus does not apply since - Levioticus 18:2 states speak unto the children of Israel. We are not Israelites. thus Leviticus is inapplicable for that reason and also for these other reasons.
BUT REMEMBER AS A BISEXUAL THEY WILL SAY THAT YOU HAVE A CHOICE TO BE HOMOSEXUAL OR NOT - THIS IS NOT THE CASE!
We are not born straight and we no more have control over our attractions as any one else. We fall for whom we fall for.
Furthermore remember in Gods eyes all sins are equal even if they are sins of thought and all sins are forgiven through our faith. NO SIN is worse than any other the only unforgivable sin is blasphemy against the holy ghost. Also as Christians we are commanded not to judge lest we are judged and not to preach. We each have our struggles and none of us are any more saved than any one else. Even one sin is too much for GOD to bear. As a Christian we are forgiven ALL of our sins including those of thought and deed by our Faith in Jesus and not by the grace of some man or ministry or church but by our own faith.
I hope the above links help and the ideas that i have put forward. I hope you can resolve your dilemmas in a way that is good for you.
There ignorance of the true nature of Christianity drove you away and I hope that you can find your faith. Faith is not tied to church or ministry but your own personal connexion to Jesus and God and as I have previously stated all sins are forgiven and as it states in Romans 7 maybe 8 words to the effect of "I can do anythng because I am a Christian and I am freed from the law because i am Christian and redeemed by Faith".
Good luck!