Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 7 months. While I was with her I was completely unhappy. I ended up getting sick during a very critical emotional growing period in our relationship. It was difficult on both of us, and we ended up not being able to handle it. My sickness was the stem to every fight we had whether they were related or not.
By the end of the relationship I was completely burned out and didn't really want her to touch me. It's not that I don't love her I'm just not in love with her. But now that we've been apart for 3 weeks she's been reading communication books and has the "love language" book and has noticed all of her mistakes and is willing to change.
I'm lonely, my best friend is in a relationship with my room mate. I'm the third wheel everywhere. I don't want a relationship right now, but I don't want to be alone. And I don't want to hurt my ex by telling her I'm not in love anymore.. I don't know what to tell her...I'm so confused. I don't want to be with someone just for the sake of having someone by my side. Do I let her in...or ride this out...goodness gracious, I just want to have fun with someone and forget about everything else....
By the end of the relationship I was completely burned out and didn't really want her to touch me. It's not that I don't love her I'm just not in love with her. But now that we've been apart for 3 weeks she's been reading communication books and has the "love language" book and has noticed all of her mistakes and is willing to change.
I'm lonely, my best friend is in a relationship with my room mate. I'm the third wheel everywhere. I don't want a relationship right now, but I don't want to be alone. And I don't want to hurt my ex by telling her I'm not in love anymore.. I don't know what to tell her...I'm so confused. I don't want to be with someone just for the sake of having someone by my side. Do I let her in...or ride this out...goodness gracious, I just want to have fun with someone and forget about everything else....
However, if you feel she is incapable of this change or if you honestly feel deep down that you need to be single or non-committed right now, then do listen to your heart HUG
I think that as long as someone doesn't cheat on me they deserve a second chance--especially if the love is still there. It sounds like she DID make a mistake or two or three haha and now wants to make that up to you, change for the better as a person, and grow in terms of her maturity/ability to have relationships. Who knows! Letting her in might teach you more than you think too :)
I'm here if you need to talk any time !