Bisexuality Support Group

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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ImBeingMe53 10/02/2014

So, I'm dating a guy right now but honestly, I have no feelings at all for him... I did at first, but now not so much. There are some days where I just CAN'T STAND to be around him! We've kissed a few times now and if I'm honest.. I felt really gross, so whenever he's been leaning in I've been moving my head to the side. Even kisses on the cheeks feel gross. Honestly, I have no clue what to do about him and I've been friends with him since I was five.

For the past three years I've been questioning my sexuality and never really knew how to handle it. But currently, I've classified myself as bi-sexual because I've never dated really besides this guy right now, but I have had multiple crushes on girls in my school and still look at girls rather than him, which makes me think I'm leaning more towards girls.

I don't have anyone to talk to that completely understands. I've come out to my friends, two of my siblings and myself, they try to understand but really they don't and it's no help. Any advice? /:

belle 04/08/2015

I understand how you feel. I have dated and even been married to a man but I have met a woman and feel so in love with her that I don't know what to do. I have told my best friend but that is all. You are not alone.

lovebeingmommy91 04/14/2015

Maybe explore more with women and see how you feel. If you aren't feeling anything towards you're boyfriend I'd break it off. Seeing how you've been friends for so long I think he'd understand. I'm bisexual and married to a man with 2 kids. But I'm still attracted to women also and he knows this. Hang in there. Always here if you need someone to talk to.

rk4262 04/24/2015

First explain to him that you really care about him, but you don't love him. Tell him that your going through a lot right now, and you want to be friends, but can't be lovers. If your brave enough tell him about the girls.

Now, I don't know if your bi- or gay, that's up to you, but you will never know that, unless you get out there and date a few girls and find out. Maybe it's not all guys, just this one, and you are bi. But, you have to get out there and experience things, you can't know if your really into girls (or guys) without trying it.

Good Luck, ask any more questions, that's what we're here for.

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