Bisexuality Support Group

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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I don't know who I am

what_am_i_1234
what_am_i_1234

I am a young girl, I have recently been catching my self looking at girls and thinking about their body, and dreaming of making out with them. And sometimes I think about how hot some guys are. I'm pretty sure I'm bi but I just wanna comepletly straight, because I feel like nobody will except who I am. I also feel like I'm the only girl in my school who is attracted to girls and boys.

hopekin25
hopekin25
First, you are not alone. What you are feeling is normal. The important thing to remember is that you have a choice in the matter. If you decide to go out with girls, guys or both is really up to you. The only question you need to ask yourself is if it makes you happy? Don't worry about the judgments of others. You don't owe them anything. This is part of who you are so accept that and choose where YOU want to go from here. I wish you luck.
BalloonBirdie
BalloonBirdie
You are a brave woman and I am so glad you are looking for answers!

Some people find comfort in labeling themselves bisexual, and some people do not. Don't feel like you have to put pressure on yourself to date a girl or kiss a girl just because you like her. When the time is right, things will fall into place.

For now, if being with a girl makes you feel jittery, then don't be with a girl. As you get older you may want to try dating girls, but if that doesn't feel right right now then no worries! The important thing to know is you are not alone, and you are in control of your body. Check back if you ever need anything, sweetheart. Hang in there!
WolfeGurl
WolfeGurl
The chances of you being alone in that are impossibly low. You're not the only one who hides how they feel but it won't make you feel any more accepted. You'll just be hiding part of yourself, if you are actually feeling something toward both sexes. I completely understand that. I'm still questioning myself, but stay strong and do what feels right.