Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
So a lot of us read about discussions on whether dreams have meanings behind them, that they are a product of our own imaginings etc.
I usually have some fairly far out dreams, but I've hardly ever ever had any sex-dreams. Possibly two that I can really count. One of them was me having sex with another woman and a more recent one of me hearing a friend of mine having sex with one of my female family members, behind a door, and feeling a little jelous. Dont get me wrong the girl is absolutely gorgeous, great body etc any girl can admire that but I've never thought about her in a sexual way before.
I'm a pretty open minded person. I believe in if you're curious about something, give it a go once, and if you dont like it, dont do it again. Simple as that!
I am attracted to guys, but I will kiss a girl. Just satuday night I'd put on some lipgloss and asked a gay buddy if he'd like to try some, so he leans over for a kiss and says it tastes yummy. I asked one of my gal friends if she'd like to try some and my gay mate said jokingly that I should kiss her too, so I did. No worries at all! A kiss is a kiss mwa!
There've been a few times as well where I've been drinking, and I have experimented a little, but heyy, it's the 21st century! With society becoming more accepting of all sorts of sexual orientations, a lot of people are all bound to try different things.
I guess I grew up a bit of a flower child, I'm a bit of a cocktail mix of a lot of stereotypes - I dress the way I please and derive humor out of seeing people reactions to the way I behave and dress.
I dont mind mucking about with a few of my fellow staff members. There's this one girl, she's turning 18 soon and we'll pretend infront of other staff members and even a few members of the public sometimes that we're in an open relationship and that we're man and wife etc. (I'm the man cause I wear odd socks, we decided)
There was one time a regular guy came in and sat with us for lunch and we jokingly told him that we were getting married and that Lady Gaga was going to perform the marriage. Think he believed us as well!
My point is that I've grown up with a kinda respect for all cliques. I like to think I get along with most; the goths, emos, the hippies, the musos, the outcasts, the nerds etc. We're all people with similar interests. I like to bring a little humor (often at my own expense but hey thats the half fun of it), some good vibes and love for everybelly really.
So with all that hippy-talk aside I guess I'm into the whole free love thing. I've had a few bi-sexual friends admit to me that they've crushed on me before, one of them lives in another country so knows that even if I did feel the same about her there'd be a slim chance of us seeing each other in person unless I win the lottery. Another I took art classes with in college a few years ago.
What do you recon the dreams mean? Recon my subconcious is telling me that I may be a little bi-sexual? bi-curious even.
Perhaps I should just keep doin what I'm doin, go with the flow, let nature do its thing.
Any experiences/thoughts et cetera from male and females out there would be groovy! fanx xx
I usually have some fairly far out dreams, but I've hardly ever ever had any sex-dreams. Possibly two that I can really count. One of them was me having sex with another woman and a more recent one of me hearing a friend of mine having sex with one of my female family members, behind a door, and feeling a little jelous. Dont get me wrong the girl is absolutely gorgeous, great body etc any girl can admire that but I've never thought about her in a sexual way before.
I'm a pretty open minded person. I believe in if you're curious about something, give it a go once, and if you dont like it, dont do it again. Simple as that!
I am attracted to guys, but I will kiss a girl. Just satuday night I'd put on some lipgloss and asked a gay buddy if he'd like to try some, so he leans over for a kiss and says it tastes yummy. I asked one of my gal friends if she'd like to try some and my gay mate said jokingly that I should kiss her too, so I did. No worries at all! A kiss is a kiss mwa!
There've been a few times as well where I've been drinking, and I have experimented a little, but heyy, it's the 21st century! With society becoming more accepting of all sorts of sexual orientations, a lot of people are all bound to try different things.
I guess I grew up a bit of a flower child, I'm a bit of a cocktail mix of a lot of stereotypes - I dress the way I please and derive humor out of seeing people reactions to the way I behave and dress.
I dont mind mucking about with a few of my fellow staff members. There's this one girl, she's turning 18 soon and we'll pretend infront of other staff members and even a few members of the public sometimes that we're in an open relationship and that we're man and wife etc. (I'm the man cause I wear odd socks, we decided)
There was one time a regular guy came in and sat with us for lunch and we jokingly told him that we were getting married and that Lady Gaga was going to perform the marriage. Think he believed us as well!
My point is that I've grown up with a kinda respect for all cliques. I like to think I get along with most; the goths, emos, the hippies, the musos, the outcasts, the nerds etc. We're all people with similar interests. I like to bring a little humor (often at my own expense but hey thats the half fun of it), some good vibes and love for everybelly really.
So with all that hippy-talk aside I guess I'm into the whole free love thing. I've had a few bi-sexual friends admit to me that they've crushed on me before, one of them lives in another country so knows that even if I did feel the same about her there'd be a slim chance of us seeing each other in person unless I win the lottery. Another I took art classes with in college a few years ago.
What do you recon the dreams mean? Recon my subconcious is telling me that I may be a little bi-sexual? bi-curious even.
Perhaps I should just keep doin what I'm doin, go with the flow, let nature do its thing.
Any experiences/thoughts et cetera from male and females out there would be groovy! fanx xx
That being said, with your history and apparent interest in homosexuality in general I wouldn't be surprised if your unconscious is saying it'll benefit you to explore that part of yourself. :) Only you can know for sure! But don't worry! Jung interpreted over 80,000 dreams in his career and said dreams like that are extremely common and definitely don't mean you're a weird kinky person or anything :)
I say yes explore it and have fun! You're craving a change...
And for the perspective too! I'm just gonna explore it, like you suggested, and go with the flow.
Kinda makes me want to start exploring my dreams a little more as well, and reading a little about CG Jung he sounds like a very fascinating guy.
Sending good vibes your way! xx
my feeling is that we are all bisexual how openly we embrace it depends on 3 things
1) How relaxed are you?
2) How open minded are you?
and my favorite
3) Are you drunk or high yet? oh not dunk enough let me get you another drink
the 3rd I know it's bad but oh so true, that's how I ended up with one of my now ex girlfriends that had sworn for years that she would never ever be with woman and had actually used the phrases "against god" and "icky". Yeah that first night i heard her say oh god alright but she wasn't praying lol the next morning she woke up all snuggled into me asking for more. To which I literally laughed and said you sure that wasn't "icky", yeah she realized what a ding bat she was for saying the other stuff after that told people proudly that she was bi.