Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
I was outed and I was the hyper Ritalin kid so the fact that it was "wrong" that my "schoolyard crushes" just allowed me to run with it. I ended up taking judo and I would get in a lot of fist fights just so I wasn't treated like "one of the f****s" pardon my choice in words but the straight people left me alone when it came to biphobic/homophobic crap so I was out and I never got along with gay guys. I had lesbian best friends and my mom came out as gay when I was 13 and when I turned 28, she admitted she'd been waiting for me to "fully come out as gay".
I guess there were pros and cons. I was on a judo team and was winning tournaments while the straight dudes were belts under me. I used to suck face with one friend on the team who was bisexual but not in any romantic sense in front of the closet cases in school and our girlfriends used to go at it together so it was all cool then. I am into monogamous relationships nowadays but I had one incident where I beat up a mouthy straight guy for calling me a part time homo and I beat up some queen that everyone wanted to beat up because he had a rotten attitude.
I never really cared about the LGBT opinion or gay men because I never felt included there. They'd get nasty and rude and I'd tell them they were AIDS infested losers anyhow and cowards who were jealous because I made sure straight men in my school weren't calling me names and crap like they tolerated. I regret being so nasty to them but I had some issues with manic behavior and there were these perv straight dudes that I ended up messing with all of them because I was manic and hypersexual and they bragged about it so the gay dudes thought I was a slut. I used to experiment with a lot of the straight guys on my team and one still to this day enjoys my fellatio abilities and I used to always rub it into the gay dudes because they thought they were better than me but all of them tried to work the straight friends they wanted and the dudes said NO WAY and were usually homophobic but it was more based on their rotten attitudes.
Nice to meet you all. I don't really do the percentage thing. I have had periods where I was more into men, and other periods where I was having threesomes with two women all the time. i have been in love twice with a bi girl and bi guy. He ended up with trauma to his head and it warped him and she miscarried. I was monogamous and would have spent my life with them. At 34, the curious straight dude deal isn't my cup of tea, neither is the slut deal but I loved everything I did with everyone even though I was major slut. I also have only been with straight men (curious and I was something in high school), bi men and bi women. I have never been with a gay dude but given my bullying, hyperactive and bipolar disorder tendencies if I was messed with, I sort of was in the straight world and associated messing with gay men with catching HIV and femme dramatic antics 24/7. So when gay people are snotty and rude, I let them know right off, I am not looking for their approval and don't care what they think.
Because I grew up with the social stigma, I tend to have a bisexual only policy which gay men always accuse me of homophobia for having even though I can sit through hours about how much they hate bisexuals but they have no history and in Ancient Greece, Rome, India and Japan, poly bisexuality was the social norm and we were the badasses back then and gay people really don't have much history and I think the fact that I am inclined to reproduce and that I would call them on claiming the ancient societies were gay and hammer them with facts while they tried to show off and the straight guys had an aversion to their femininity so they'd make homophobic remarks and I'd shrug because I wasn't part of that drama on either end. I mean, I went down on a lot of those straight men. They were homophobic because of how feminine and miserable they were to everyone. And half of them were just putting on an act. So I am really into being bisexual because straight dudes are pigs and the fact that I was bisexual seemed to override their homophobia to the point that they'd hit on me.
I guess there were pros and cons. I was on a judo team and was winning tournaments while the straight dudes were belts under me. I used to suck face with one friend on the team who was bisexual but not in any romantic sense in front of the closet cases in school and our girlfriends used to go at it together so it was all cool then. I am into monogamous relationships nowadays but I had one incident where I beat up a mouthy straight guy for calling me a part time homo and I beat up some queen that everyone wanted to beat up because he had a rotten attitude.
I never really cared about the LGBT opinion or gay men because I never felt included there. They'd get nasty and rude and I'd tell them they were AIDS infested losers anyhow and cowards who were jealous because I made sure straight men in my school weren't calling me names and crap like they tolerated. I regret being so nasty to them but I had some issues with manic behavior and there were these perv straight dudes that I ended up messing with all of them because I was manic and hypersexual and they bragged about it so the gay dudes thought I was a slut. I used to experiment with a lot of the straight guys on my team and one still to this day enjoys my fellatio abilities and I used to always rub it into the gay dudes because they thought they were better than me but all of them tried to work the straight friends they wanted and the dudes said NO WAY and were usually homophobic but it was more based on their rotten attitudes.
Nice to meet you all. I don't really do the percentage thing. I have had periods where I was more into men, and other periods where I was having threesomes with two women all the time. i have been in love twice with a bi girl and bi guy. He ended up with trauma to his head and it warped him and she miscarried. I was monogamous and would have spent my life with them. At 34, the curious straight dude deal isn't my cup of tea, neither is the slut deal but I loved everything I did with everyone even though I was major slut. I also have only been with straight men (curious and I was something in high school), bi men and bi women. I have never been with a gay dude but given my bullying, hyperactive and bipolar disorder tendencies if I was messed with, I sort of was in the straight world and associated messing with gay men with catching HIV and femme dramatic antics 24/7. So when gay people are snotty and rude, I let them know right off, I am not looking for their approval and don't care what they think.
Because I grew up with the social stigma, I tend to have a bisexual only policy which gay men always accuse me of homophobia for having even though I can sit through hours about how much they hate bisexuals but they have no history and in Ancient Greece, Rome, India and Japan, poly bisexuality was the social norm and we were the badasses back then and gay people really don't have much history and I think the fact that I am inclined to reproduce and that I would call them on claiming the ancient societies were gay and hammer them with facts while they tried to show off and the straight guys had an aversion to their femininity so they'd make homophobic remarks and I'd shrug because I wasn't part of that drama on either end. I mean, I went down on a lot of those straight men. They were homophobic because of how feminine and miserable they were to everyone. And half of them were just putting on an act. So I am really into being bisexual because straight dudes are pigs and the fact that I was bisexual seemed to override their homophobia to the point that they'd hit on me.
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Just understand I was rejected early on so I didn't care about how gay people were treated. I support them and am happy for where they have come but they seem to be getting angrier and acting more persecuted as they get more rights and whatnot. So I am not a homophobe, I just see bisexuality as something outside of both gay and straight societies because I can't hate myself.
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