Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
Hello, I have never admitted these things before. I am with a man and I have two Children. I find myself attracted to women as well as men. I have never told anybody or acted on it. I have been this way as long as I can remember. What should I do? Is it going to cause me problems with my mental health to keep it to myself?
thank you
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I can't believe this has gone on this long. So I don't have much hope of getting a tech job, but I saw an educational job that I thought might be really good. It would have been working at a university supporting high school students who are taking college classes. I did a mock interview with a friend and prepared extensively. It was at the university that I graduated from. I was very excited...
I ask because if you have had these feeling all your life and it has not caused you anguish yet I doubt it will hurt your mental health to just keep it to yourself, if thats what you want to do. Is that what you would prefer or are you wanting to export that side of you now?
I think about being with men sometimes but have never acted on it either. So I am not too sure about myself either. It has not bothered me much having not explore it, but I have come pretty close to acting on these feelings a few times. I am not sure why I never went through with it, fear I guess.
Don't worry about it. I do not think there is anything wrong in having some attraction to our own sex, so long as it causes harm to no-one. Maybe it would be best not to tell anyone in case they worry about it.
For me the ideal of being with a man and woman at the same time is much more appealing than just being with a man.
I have been actively seek that out actually. Its hard for me because I have body issues and frankly most people seeking this are more focused on physical appearance, which is understandable. Most just want to play and not form any kind of bond really. There are exception though.
I am single so I dont have to try and tell a partner that I want something like this and the people out there looking have already talked about it and know what they want, so there is no problem talking about it openly with them.
Probably more than you wanted to know:) but I dont get to talk about my feeling towards this.
My best to you!
My advice is to find a suitable time and tell your guy. Then take it from there. It’s tough but the alternative is your mental health will begin to suffer.
Good luck.