Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
I am 37 and have been attracted to both male and female my entire life. In my 20's i had a regular sexual relationship with a trans gendered woman for a long time but that relationship didn't last because i could not come out to my friends and family. My sister knows about me and encourages me to come out but i am afraid that my friends won't accept me and in will be alone.
When i am with a woman i fantasize sometimes about being with a transgender woman because there are certain things i like that a woman does not have. I want to find someone to be with... I am looking for love but am afraid of the backlash i may receive.
I guess i am writing for advice on this matter. I don't want to sneak around and exhibit risky behavior... I want a relationship. Cananyone help on this subject?
I will be looking forward to replies. Thank you.
-Happy
Your sister is right, you can't have it both ways, and if you want a transgender lover you must look for new friends if they are too narrow-minded to accept you. You probably know that the transgender people are the courageous of the LGBT crowd, because their everyday is an uphill battle, So it is up to you to show courage as well. Good luck!