Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
I must be sick. But lately I've been getting into watching anal sex. It's getting to be a real turn on. I'm not sure what it means.I'm developing a preference. I might want to give as well as receive. Am I gay ? Am I bisexual? I want to buy some sex toys to explore explore myself. I'm such a pervert! I'm still attracted to women but this aspect of my sexuality doesn't want to be ignored can someone tell me what,s wrong with me?
deleted_user
It is what it is. I wouldn't worry too much. Be safe. Go slowly. And see what you think. Maybe get to know some gay people, if you don't.
novaxman
I agree with the first reply. DON"T be so hard on yourself. I did that for many many years and it made me very unhappy for most of my life. I thought I was a str guy but I opened to my feelings and found out that I was bisexual. At least for me it is not a choice. It is who I am and how I feel towards the same sex. I felt like you for many years. I told myself how wrong it was and tried to push the feelings out but they just got more intense. I finally decided to meet with a guy sexually. To make the story short, I had anal sex with him being the bottom. All I can say it was amazing. It felt incredible and I enjoyed it very much. The important thing is I met a guy that was caring and careful with me as in entered me. Let me tell you the first time hurt a great deal. My advise is go with what you feel.
deleted_user
Nothing is going on that I can see. There are hetrosexuals who also enjoy anal sex. Sure doesn't make you a pervert. Gay porn movies appear to be full of that anal sex stuff. At least it was at a gay bar I frequented. It is not my thing. But as long as too adults consent to any form of sexuality their is nothing to judge. So explore. Make sure that there is mutual consent. That is all.
goatee76
I want to thank everybody who replied. I think I'm a heterosexual with bisexual leanings. Although I've never shared this with anyone and I've slept with about as may men as I have women. My recent foray into anal pleasure while masturbating whatever it means, is just that, anal pleasure and if I meet someone who is into the same thing so be it.I hold no fears. It's just me and fantasy that I keep inside. Thanks for listening.
privatepretty1
There is nothing wrong with anal sex. I have a straight husband and we do it sometimes. I always douche beforehand and I've been known to come during receiving anal sex. Between two consenting adults its fine. Stop being so hard on yourself. If you want to receive it yourself just build slowly the size, else it will hurt first time, and always use plenty of lube.
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