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Why Can't They be Nice to Us?

Jenniferswe
Jenniferswe

I know these government workers have a lot on their plates but they don't have to treat us like vermin!  I'm on the list for one county for years and I get an application packet in the mail saying it needed to be filled out and done by March 15th.  This date was 2 weeks after I recieved it.  I called and left a message about this and got an email.  It said I needed to get it in right away because they were going to start removing people from the list.  I said I would do the best I can and mail it back.  It will probably a sloppy mess because there will be parts that are confusing.


It's so unfair!   I and many others will lose our place in line because they want more paperwork at the last minute!  What we to do?  Just give up?  Fade into the shadows?


I'm angry and heartbroken over this.

Thor2008
Thor2008
Sorry. The government hiring rules do not favor competence. Do your best and roll with the punches.
mlr0853
mlr0853
Jenn, shift your thoughts!! With them deleting applications Your Name Will Move Farther Up The List For Approval. Just do your best with filling out the form, what they want is to get the application from you so your name stays on the waiting list.

Please Jenn try to think positive thoughts...I know this is hard for you...I really like this gal, she just restarted her ""Tuesday cup of tea"" her message was a good one today for me as I'm feeling pretty grumpy. It's very short. Please Jenn keep writing so you can get the support from your friends here on DS that want the Best For You!! Keep Faith Jenn, Faith is the opposite of fear.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WYgsX-FonfY
Jenniferswe
Jenniferswe
Thank you my friends. I have my Psychiatric Nurse Practioner and long time family friend getting after the housing dept., also.
SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady
I know it’s hard, but try not to take it personally. It’s super frustrating when you’re trying to move to a better position and require assistance, and it seems like people don’t care about helping you. Look to the other people in your life to offer supportive words and helpful gestures and don’t let the frustrating folks get you down. Big hugs!!
OlderCPer
OlderCPer
I don't think the government workers are trying to treat people like "vermin" or be mean. I think they are overworked, understaffed and trying to get the paperwork out that they need to get out. I doubt anyone is taking anything personally out on you, they're just letting you know what needs to be done so you don't lose your place. I would not take it personally.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I agree with what others have said.... I think that they're working there butts off... Especially during Covid
I would just rush to get them in Jen... If there is something filled in wrong it can be picked up and fixed.... Big hug.... You can do this!!... xo
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