Bipolar Disorder Support Group

Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.

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Transfers,devorce, bipolar

Natvau9933
Natvau9933

I just want to cry,cry cry,. I feel like my 15  & 13 hate me. My x says they are ashamed of me. IAM trying my best as a mom.  I am not perfect and have made mistakes. All I want to do is spend time with them and when they say no to me for the 10th time I start to believe their dads words. Their sister which is 11 lives with me and doesn't feel the same way. I am bipolar and confused  help!!!!

Thor2008
Thor2008
I'd first make sure that you have a psychologist and therapist would be critical. Bipolar is a brain problem. It is not a mental illness (like depression). You might need medication and the talk with the therapist will help you with your girls. Going into mania as a single parent could be a huge problem. I've been in mania for several days and I was a complete mess. So get some professional help that will help you deal with bipolar and your girls.

On your X... don't believe his garbage. You are better than that and you have nothing to be ashamed of.
mlr0853
mlr0853
Hi, I'm sorry you are having such a hard time, and I'm g lad you found your way here. I think Thor is right...medication management is a huge factor to maintain our health. Having a regular therapist and psydr management will be important step for you to take "in the best of the child's interests', that is what the court is all about. Above you mentioned "transfer, divorce and bipolar".

For me of the triggers of bipolar symptoms is Stress and not having a routine...if you are moving/husband moving out and getting a divorce...oh I do hope you have a therapist.

It is as far as I know against the law for parental ailaination during divorce. https://farzadlaw.com/divorce-and-child-custody/what-is-parental-alienation Or...a typical teen who's just angry about everything and everyone due to divorce.

Hang in there, what you a re experiencing is Real...I do hope you will concider staying here for support...Best to you!
Maui1992
Maui1992
Teenagers are difficult to deal with in the best of times. Just tell them you love them. And take the above advice from others who have more experience and knowledge than I have. But I can give you a big hug!
Sunshinegirl0228
Sunshinegirl0228
Family therapy could help here. I hated my stepdad for years before I let him in. Now I call him Dad. Your kids don’t hate you. I’m sure they’re just hurt and confused. Divorce is hard on kids. Though I rejoiced when my mom divorced my biological father. Just be the best mom you can be. Therapy really helps.
Tesla369
Tesla369
The fact that you are this upset tells me you are a good mother. Everyone makes mistakes. Just keep letting them know how much you care. Your ex sounds like a piece of work. Hang in there.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Welcome to the board Nava.... I am so sorry that you're going through such a rough time

Your ex needs to be supportive of you as their mother.... If he's trying to alienate your children that's child abuse

I would work with your doctor to get your bipolar under control..... It's a treatable illness but can take some time to get things under control and if you're able get a therapist as well

If you have a lawyer I would discuss having some mediation with regards to being supportive to one another as parents..... If they have time that they're to spend with you then they should be doing just that

Gentle hug.... I'm so sorry that you're hurting..... xo
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