I'll spare you the details, love - I'd just rather have a solid knee to the groin than a knife in my heart ANY day of the week.

I feel the same way about men.

Thanks for the advice but if I was going to do anything to the next man who betrays me, balls it'd be castration!

But I doubt you deserve either so I"m very sorry this happened to you. Perhaps you should stick with Rosy Palm for awhile. And if she cheats on you then you have a real problem on your "hands?"

Sorry for the cheap puns. I just wanted to lighten the mood.

"Love sucks puke juice."

And yes I know how a broken heart is just as painful for men as it is for women. Nothing is worse than a mopey male friend. Of course I'd be tempted to take advantage of him in his time of vulnerability. Women do it too ;)

Thanks for the levity, DK - It still hurts when I laugh, but not nearly as bad as it does when I cry!

Oh - BTW - I'm bipolar, and take my meds as prescribed, so Miss Rosie just gives up after 45 minutes. She just can't keep going long enough to 'do the deed' LMAO!

:( I am sorry you feel that way, Kubla. I know, it hurts like hell...trust me I really know... won't tell you how recently I know... but I know how it feels to have a knife in your heart. I also know how it feels to have that person repeatedly pull it out and stab you in the heart over and over again... or continue to twist the knife... things we do for someone we love, it only got worse. I know you don't want to hear this right now but it's my best advice...forgive and forget, do the things you love to do, distract yourself... your heart will heal. I am sorry but I am not gonna kick ya. Nope... sorry gonna hug ya instead. ***Hug***

OMG! If rosy can't do it in 45mins there's no way I could do it either! (there was a time when I could go for hours and hours but those days are over now.)

Oh it brings back all my memories of the days when I would consoled you and then take advantage of you. You wouldn't even be able to remember old what's her name after I was through with you. >:)

Too many of us have sex lives that have suffered thanks to meds. And relationships usually suffer when the sex life does.

I find that a lot of sex holds a stronger bond. It's probably that damnable chemical your brain gives you after sex. It creates an illusion of love in your mind even if you wouldn't have ever felt that way under ordinary circumstances. It does do it to men as well as women.

Just keep that in mind for your next relationship endeavor.

And I'm sorry rosy has failed you. You may have to try some extreme things to solve that problem like toys. Just a suggestion.

Or you could ask for a medication change. I know lamictal works well for me and my sex drive is slowly coming back. It may actually improve your next love life on the deep emotional side too.

That's really the best I can do for now. Huggs

@Sixty - no, love - it's EXACTLY what I needed to hear!

Thank you! ((HUG SIXTY))!!!

@DK - Message me with your address - I need to forget "old what's-her-face". jet airplane tickets aren't too expensive! LOL

BTW, I do take Lamictal - and thank you ALL very much for being here when I needed you!!!
Love and kisses for you all - LOADS of kisses!!!

(except you gents - LOADS of handshakes or 'chest bumps for you!)