I'd confront the bitch. But that's me. You f-k with my family and I will let your ass have it. I know others will disagree with me but that abusive woman will do it again. It also sounds like they enable each other with the heavy drinking that goes on. Sounds like a very toxic relationship and really you can't do anything about it. But the woman in my skin would let her and my grandfather know what I think. Then move on cause no one will change until they are ready. He's allowing this behavior, don't forget that. Good luck. Peace and hugs to you.

she shouldve waited... if i wait long enough, my h hits himself.

sam-that is how I am I wanna kill her..but I dont want my grandfather to be mad..I cant hit her okay fine but i am going to say infront of everyone when she opens her mouth to talk to me im gunna bitterly say plz dont bother talking to me,she always plays nice to me cuz my the only grandchild thats a girl and my grandfathers well im his little meagan..
I have already bitched her out one nite when for the 1000 time she called him an ass and my grandfather wasnt mad,he look shocked i was so mad..I dont think he knows what i look like mad..Sam your rite about there realtionship as well..its killing me and I think today when I found out and had to leave the table and go to my room so I could cry like a child at 21..it hurt my mom alot cuz now the bitch is hurtting us all..I know theres nothing I can do and it break my heart..

paintdry- lol i dont even no what to say to that.

I know how it is to have a beloved member of the family in a relationship with a person you know is no good for them. My sister's fiance is not abusive but she has turned into Stepford wife to be around him. Her words aren't her own. Her thoughts aren't. He has her living just far enough away from us that we feel he is isolating her. I don't like him. They were expecting a baby but she miscarried a few days ago. It's in God's hands.

its true, sad but true... always nervous he will call the cops and say i did it. i didnt i didnt hit him. he hit himself. got so sick of it, i started egging him on. he has since cut back.

sam-ya she trys to take my grandfather away make him leave for florida sooner then he nomraly would so she dosent have to deal with us.keeps him away frum us at all costs..trying to get him to buy a house with her!!(she wants his money and then she wants him dead)
she is still with her ex hubby cuz he will get army benfits when he dies..Im sorry to hear about your sister my god she must be lost,losing a baby and all! then add the hubby to boot.
panitdry-ture or not making me lol so i feel better..abit :p

i wanna get it on video, maybe i can with my ipod. catch him in the act and youtube that shit.

I hear what your saying. I would definitely call her out in front of everyone. Then I'd tell her flat out next time she better disappear before I got there. That I would whoop her ass and not care if my granddad was mad at me.

Wow my heart would be breaking if any one hit my grandfather.

I'm also a bit speechless. Who hits a man of 76? Its just wrong.