You just tell it the way you see it Chugger, I thank you for that!!! Sometimes the truth is hard to hear, but needs to be said. Thank you for being you!!!

That's why it's important kiko, you never know when it who will be affected by your words.

nothing I say matters much

Always.. someone is watching everything you do and listening to what you say, whether you know it or not.

where are they? lol

in the perverbial shadows..

You mean.......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LtynjqYUOvk

To me the best friend I have is the one who isnt afraid to tell it like it is. Sometimes I take offense to it at first but after it sinks in I realize that she was right. I'm thankful that I have someone who isn't afraid to put me in my place.
I try to be the same way and yes sometimes it doesnt come out exactly the way I meant it to but I will always go back and explain what I meant.

Truth hurts us sometimes. Always be honest about what you think/feel. An uncle once told me that, "We are responsible for what we say and do and others are responsible for the way they let it affect them". We cant control what other people feel, think, say, or do. and if it feels right to you then so be it. "To Thine Own Self Be True"-Shakespeare. Read my journal...silly man :)