Bipolar Disorder Support Group
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I feel like a piece of shit. I should be studying but I'm not. For some reason I can't find a guy who thinks of me as more than a piece of ass. I don't understand what is wrong with me.
deleted_user
There is a guy out there who will think more of you than a "piece of ass". You have to sift through a lot of them to find him though. It's a process. Don't despair. There is a decent chap out there somewhere. Patience is required. You are a nice, attractive young woman with a lot to offer so it is highly likely that a good person will eventually come along. :)
tommymott
Ah yes, how often we feel that every evil thing in the world is our fault. But cheer up, it isn't! Only some of it is our fault. Maybe you need to hang around some new guys. Or if you visit the zoo and meet a guy who takes care of the antelope, he'd be a gnu guy. Don't give up. Not every guy will look at you like you're a piece of meat. Some guys will appreciate you for who you are, even if they do check you out as you walk away. But absolutely none of this is your fault or indicates that there's anything wrong with you..
Shelly4
I am sorry you feel this way. I remember how bad this feeling was. I went through alot of guys and I do mean ALOT of guys before I found my husband. It was worth all the hearache and all the hassle. I have to say though, for many years, I really didnt mind the attitude of the men I dated. I am sure it was the hypersexuality and hypo mania. Be patient, the right man will come along for you. Hugs
deleted_user
There is not anything wrong with you if you talk to any person who is single they probably feel the same way.Maybe look at where or how you are trying to meet guys and see if going about that some other way may give you better results. It is hard but it could be alot of different things not even really to do with you that makes it seem like that is all they want. I mean it IS all they want but there are some that are looking to get it from YOU on a regular ,monogamous basis.LOL
deleted_user
i'm sorry but with all the other kind blah blah blah's [sorry]at your age that's unfortunatly what most women go through, as demeaning and disgusting as it is find a female study patner!!!
deleted_user
Maybe it would help to sit and make a list of why you chose each guy? FIgure out why you picked them to date (or at least try to). Maybe there's an underlying reason.
Alliegator
Thanks for your support everyone. I guess I am just being impatient. I am only 19 and I realize most college guys are not as mature and are definitely not ready to be "tied down" I am just really sick of that being an excuse.
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