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My wicked stepmother had invited me, Will and my son up to her beach house on Long Beach Island about a week ago. We got our hopes up because we don't vacation every year, well never, due to finances, Little by little things were happening, like wicked stepmom couldn't find a flight to were she wanted to pick us up, then no openings on Amtrak, and lots of other little things yadda, yadda. Funny when Will checks Amtrak there are plenty of openings on every date we choose.
Oh and I must mention the fact that my wicked stepmom got a HUGE settlement from when my father died from asbestos cancer and has been not working and living off that settlement money and traveling the world for years now. Able to buy a beach house too, must be nice right??
Well now I'm super PISSED, my son told ALL his friends that he was going to the beach, this was big for him since he has never been to the ocean before ya know? My son has had a real rough year in school, issues with his non-existent, deadbeat father, the list goes on and on. Now I cannot stop thinking about how badly I want to kick wicked stepmoms teeth down her throat.
I finally told her that it's all becoming to much of a hassle and that I think she is regretting the invite......i left it at that and have not heard back yet. Very upset right now.....my son is always telling me people suck and I tell him otherwise...well NOW I am totally agree!!
Oh and I must mention the fact that my wicked stepmom got a HUGE settlement from when my father died from asbestos cancer and has been not working and living off that settlement money and traveling the world for years now. Able to buy a beach house too, must be nice right??
Well now I'm super PISSED, my son told ALL his friends that he was going to the beach, this was big for him since he has never been to the ocean before ya know? My son has had a real rough year in school, issues with his non-existent, deadbeat father, the list goes on and on. Now I cannot stop thinking about how badly I want to kick wicked stepmoms teeth down her throat.
I finally told her that it's all becoming to much of a hassle and that I think she is regretting the invite......i left it at that and have not heard back yet. Very upset right now.....my son is always telling me people suck and I tell him otherwise...well NOW I am totally agree!!
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
If she is trying to get out of the invite then maybe you should ask her.
Let her know what your son has told his friends and how that makes you feel.
She may not be giving up but there may be something else going on with her.
Hugs
She commented back and said that she doesn't regret the invite and other than the renters her schedule is open, WTH? But SHE keeps pushing the date around and back as far as coming up in the Fall. Makes no damn sense to me.....*shrugs*
She was married & was care assistance to your Father for how long.she earned the money.Apparntly your Father was of sound mind when he obtain insurance policy-s & made out his well.
Was your Father in last stage of alhimers when he did such ?was he declared incomented by Judge? just wondering. since that would exsplain your point of veiw. Uncertain of legal limitations. u can find out. any atty can tell u. that is if u should opt to sue her for a % of the pie.
You will love Long Island. It's nice. I love NY & people.While in NY shop until u drop. enjoy.
The line I grew up with is "You were going to get this ----but since you did that..."
Very disappointing... 460E woman! straight the the beach : )
I agree with what Sword has said.. maybe just confronting what's going on will help..
Big squishy hug for you sista...xo
some people. honestly.
I really hope you make it away for some vacation this year and hopefully at the beach.
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This reminds me of "Peanuts" when Lucy would pretend to want Charlie Brown to punt the football and then take it away from him.
If you cannot do this with her and she is being odd and evil about it all, maybe you and your son can do something else.
Not exactly the same but sort of similar, my son has a slightly difficult personality and it is important that he gets out as well. We love our sons so much and we want them to have positive experiences and when circumstances or people mess those plans up, it gets heartbreaking-been there.
PS: From now on, we will refer to my son as "blue streak" since he runs around so fast and wears a lot of blue! LOL!
Hugs, A.
I'm sorry your vacation plans are getting complicated. I would dive in a put together 3 possible scenarios (dates, transportation) that would work and talk it over with your stepmom.
Are you looking forward to spending time with her? I don't blame you for being bitter that she inherited your father's estate. If only she could have seen fit to share!
$$$ can cause so much hurt and heartache. We have it in our family as well. We rent farming ground from my father-in-law. My husband's brother rents ground too. We pay fair market rent. Brother pays $0 rent. "Fair" is a 4-letter "f" word in my line of thinking -- a curse.
Try to be patient, Tats, so you can work out this trip to Long Island Beach. You know it would mean a lot to your son. But, if it doesn't work out, put your energies toward alternative things you can do this summer with your son.
I'm hoping it all works out for the best for you!!