I need a little support here

Here's the situation. My son was enrolled into a private boarding school that is only open for low income families in need. Now the school doesn't deal with children with behavior problems.

That being said my son has been in this school since 2008 with no problems until this year.

Now I also have a daughter who went to this school until the beginning of this school year. I pulled her out because of her behavior and problems she was having. I pulled her out knowing she would want to go back and that's basically why I pulled her out so that if she went back she would be grateful to be there instead of acting like a mess.

My son's a little different though. He didn't have years of acting like a fool. He was a really good kid and he liked school. Now there are several situations that happened to him leading up to this. It's not just that he saw his sister come home so he decided to take a page from her book, no.

Here's what happened. He had a crush on this girl. They were friends. And when they wanted to see each other they would do something to get thrown into the heath Center (a building set a side for illness be it mental or not.) so they could sneak out and see each other. Now they did get caught. Well a falling out happened between them and no one really knows what that was but they were no longer friends.

But my son still had a crush on her. So one day at lunch he sat at her table, I guess he had something to say but didn't know how to say it so he sat there in silence instead. Well naturally this creeped her out so she said he was stalking her. Instead of going to an adult though she went and told all the other kids in her class and they started harassing my son to stop stalking her and what not. So he's embarrassed about that.

But to top everything off he was on the soccer team at the time and the kids were harassing him there too, telling him he was the worse goaly ever and blaming him that they lost the game. Well some of those same kids were in his student home so he wasn't escaping the bulling at night either. I guess things escalated to the point where my son broke a window and tried to cut himself. He says he doesn't remember doing it.

Now he's in philhaven the closest mental facility. The school was on the fence about taking him back because of the whole window thing and him threatening suicide if he went back. He also said he would just get kicked out if he went back and he really wants to come home.

After talking to the school we decided that it was better to take him out rather than risk him getting kicked out because if he gets kicked out he can't come back later if he would change his mind. Where as if I pull him out he could re apply and come back later (well Maybe) but it's still an option.

So I decided to pull him out. Well my uncle who has stuck his nose into my families business for far to long flipped out on me like it wasn't my decision and like it's the worse thing in the world. To him this school was the end all of hope for my kids' future. So now according to him they can't have a decent future because of this.

It's pissing me off to no end now. I didn't make a bad choice I know I did the best thing for the situation being what it is.

Also my family is not very understanding of mental illness. My son also sees thing and hears voices that tell him to hurt himself. He needs intensive therapy that the school also could not provide.

I just feel upset now and could use hugs and support for my decision.