I understand toxic family. I am only recently recovering with a rift with both my parents were I had both of them blocked on my phone and on Facebook. We have since reconciled.

What you're going through sounds really hard. It's so hard to be abandoned by family, especially when you're having health problems.

I would advise, don't do anything rash even though you're angry right now. Don't absolutely do not move out of your apartment and disappear with only temp work as financial support, you could end up homeless and lose all your stuff and then you would be much worse off.

Stay in your apartment, stay strong, stay calm, and try to reconcile with your family first by giving them a lot of space as they seem to need it and waiting. Your asset is composure.

Just wait until they come back and start talking to you again, which they probably will, because family is blood, and then you will be able to try again.

don't run. im just guessing you have more there then your family. like your doctors and maybe a therapist? or fiend or two . don't just run.

my relationship has never been good with my family. I was adopted my siblings were not and are all older. About 4 years ago my sister who has been the most toxic to me my entire life. Just cast the final stone. I cut her out of my life and have had no contact. Best 4 years ever. In these years i discovered everyone close to the family knew how horrible she treated me. except my mother. I am fine without her because she was hardly ever in my universe anyway. She had such a horrible jealousy of me my gastric bypass was making me life threatening sick and she told her daughter shed be dammed if that bitch meaning me was going to get smaller then her. i could be dead not thinner lol

so my dear I think if you can talk it out if you can with them. I do think they could of done this different but i don't know your entire history. thought and patience should always be used in these matters because they are your family and some things cant be undone. what can you live with and what can you accept for yourself. good luck . you got this it will all be great.

Thank you.

I too have a toxic family. I moved FAR away when I got married and simply stopped communicating with them. When there is a wedding or funeral at which I'm going to be around my family, I just smile and nod, ignoring them to the best of my ability to just remain calm. It's excruciatingly difficult. As far as getting blocked, that is just juvenile behavior. Be the bigger person and let go of them - you don't need them. They are caustic - causing you WAY more harm than good. Smile and nod. That's the ticket. Big hugs, sweetie.

I never knew how toxic a family could be until I met my fiance and started spending time with her family. My family is far from perfect but at least we have love and res[pect for one another most the time. My fiances family despise each other. They are all very selfish people and they treat each other like shit. My fiance is nothing like them. I think she must be more like her dad who got out of there long ago and is much nicer than her mother. Her mother goes to church 6 days a wekk and uses her relationship with GOd to cover the fact that she is generally not always a nice person. She is also a foster parent and not so nice to her foster kids either. ALl of my fiances siblings despise and avoid each other. And my fiances sister recently took her fam and moved across country just to get away from the drams. I think you should get away TC maybe not move far away but at least away from you Dad for awhile to protexct yiourself Hugs.

That's terrible TC. I understand you because I'm in the same boat with my mother and sister.

Unfortunately, they may not be able to change the way they are with you so I don't think you should change your life around because of them. Do what you want to do.