My husband told me a month ago a roaring twenties party his work is throwing. He really wanted to go so I went out search high and low looking for costume stuff and spent my own money on the stuff. He went out and did some work for some neighbor ladies because they paid him. Now he says he's too tired to go to this party. I got mad at him and he acted like I am bitch because I'm mad. I worked very hard getting those costumes together! I can't afford to spend money on stuff we won't ever use! He doesn't wear nice clothes and doesn't take me any place that I need that kind of dress! I get ssdi!! I've wasted my money on clothes that will never be used!!! I'm so angry with my husband right now, I could set him on fire and watch him burn!!!