Big Brother says to shut up and keep my head down
Big sister says to be social and try to act like the leadership types

You dont have to go to the extreme of being a loudmouth drama queen to a quite private mouse. There is balance between the two.

It takes a lot of energy to make drastic changes. Better to make small changes and learn when to be a drama mama and when to tone it down.

Celebrate everyone's success equally. Ask people about themselves. tommy is soooo right about starting small. Find out more about your big brother and big sister. And if you already know a lot, think about everything you know. The things you know and what you think is in your head...but its about them.

Get emotionally invested in other people.

I try and be aware of drama and behaviour..... My Father used to say stop and think before you talk... Sometimes it works for me and sometimes not so much...lol....xo

Is it online or off? I think people tend to keep different personas depending. I do. Or maybe I don't. I don't even know anymore.

I like people with drama sometimes because my life is so boring and they are so colorful. Drama people can be fun to listen to. Leadership people can be fun too. Just be yourself and anyone who doesn't like it can frack off. Whatever you do - don't put yourself on mute to make people like you.

Lady Gaga said "Don't be a drag, just be a queen"

Just think about being appropriate to the situation in YOUR own way, not the mouse way. Let's handle that.

Try to be aware and not be so quick to just jump into something--that's kind of what I hear.

Big sister is at a law firm, and she's very clean. I am very messy. I'm more like the brother.

I think a balance can be reached between the two natures.

Instead of comparing yourself to your siblings...why not just be yourself ?

((hugs))

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