Bipolar Disorder Support Group
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We have been friends for over twelve years and several of those years we were partners until she cheated. Now she is engaged to this guy and our friendship is getting less. For awhile we use to get together on the weekends for a few hours at her place,he was there and everything was fine. Then a couple of months ago things changed. I no longer go over to her place and stop asking because I would get "I don't know what we are doing", she dosen't call me as often and if she does she will cut off our phone call in the middle of a discussion and I assume because he walked in. I will ask her if I can come over and take her dog out (I became attached to him)and she says he's fine. Then I will ask what she is doing on the weekend and she did'nt know yet then I find out she went out. Resently I brought up the calling part and the response was she is busy even to see her other frinds and that I was one of her closes friends. I want to bring all of this up but I'm scared to loose the friendship. Some good advice would help.
If you are feeling this, then I think you should communicate them to her and see what she has to say. Sit down and talk, tell her if she wants you to back off then you'll back off, but still want to be friends.
I know this will be hard for you, but it's better than losing her. Maybe the guy just doesn't want her around you because you're an ex. It could be anything.
I think you should probably be on the lookout for some new friends to hang out with just so you have them around for things to do with and keep you company.
I don't think it's the bipolar that is bothering her. If she is a true friend then she won't have a problem with talking to you about it. The key is communication in any relationship. I wish you the best of luck and hope she understands how you feel. Hugs