You are not alone! My husband is the same way, when he is adamant in his point of view he raises his voice, he is even more vocal when he drinks, he scares alot of people, but I have come to know him and he doesn't scare me. We've been together 20yrs so I know there is hope for all! Don't give up Chug, you seem to be someone that would be enjoyable to get to know, flaws included!

thank you. The thing of it is, I'm open to critism of my point, but they are usually already on edge by that point.

I know part of the reason I'm so loud is my father. He works on the RailRoad and it's always loud around trains so he brings that home. I'm sure it rubbed off on me. The last person I had this issue with insisted I must have had some trauma in my life to be this way, but I never did.

Just think that voice that causes you trouble emanates the most beautiful music it is a treasure as well as an obstacle.

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and the beat goes on....
follow your dreams to where your heart takes you...

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Yeah a man getting loud with me is a no no. Especially in public, good luck with your search!

I posted in your journal.

A little side note..whenever my sister would come into the store where I work(a rather large single story mall Department store)..She ALWAYS KNEW when I was there,'cause she could hear my voice.
Yeah,loud is an issue for me...I'm loud!

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(((Chuggy )))

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Loud is proud when I go to europe they hate me. I am the loud ugly american. But hey
I can back it up.
I have been and always will be loud
And dam that japanese band that stole my handle
LOUDNESS

IS THIS LOUD ENUFF FOR YOU? I KNOW WEMMEN LOVE THE CAPS LOCK.

So, anyway....

I didn't read the journal, but if it has to do with romance ....aww who am I kidding. good luck bud.

just wear that sexy bunny shirt i like. we won't hear a thing then cuz we'll be to busy lookin at your nipples. there ya go...problem solved.

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((( Chuggy )))

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