Tats, I'm gonna send my husband over there and he can teach you how to just -- DO NOTHING.

He has been off work since Christmas. I am gradually getting my house strait, putting up gifts. Taking my time.

I asked him this morning to please just do something that improves the household. Well he did it. He took his new shoes and put them in the closet. Done, done, and done!!!

Hi tats. As I take time away from twiddling my own thumbs I recently found that according to NIKE, you JUST DO IT. I think that as they have earned billions of $ over the years that you should/must take their advice: JUST DO IT.

This morning I really wanted to take a long walk, but didn't and now I'm feeling poorly about it. So, yeah, I know what you mean. It's kind of like fixing dinner. It's going to take time, effort, and lots of dishes later, but you do it since the results will be so tasty. Peace out.

I so relate to this tats- I tend to idle on high most days and it seems that I am all over the place yet going nowhere. I walk in circles. I do try to do at least one thing and it leads to another thing getting done. I just don't beat myself up over it anymore. I don't over-think it. ( sure if that's really possible eh?) lol!

Just try not to be so hard on yourself and give yourself credit when you do what seems like the smallest of things. Minute by minute.

i am the same way.i have a million things i can do and feel i 'should' do but i cant focus on and actually get done and since i have been dx w being bp i have spent alot of time feeling gulilty and kicking myself in the ass for it and i have grown enough to realize in my recovery over the past year that i need to get over it. its not worth the beating. i cant focus and thats it.but i have done other things,just as i am sure you have.focus on that and learn to be comfortable in the "boredom" or enjoy the quiet time instead. my fav scripture from the bible is "Be Still and know that I am God" be able to be comfortable in stillness and know its okay. its a hard concept but w practice u begin to realize its okay and accept it. you ll get to those chores and crafts someday or maybe never in the scheme of life.....does it really matter??? i found alanon helped w these issues.be gentle w yourself this year!! (((HUGS))))

Thanks guys appreciate the input......I don't sit still well can ya tell?! Most of my family is like this actually so maybe it's a learned behavior, to be uncomfortable if I'm not doing something. Just don't feel comfy in my own skin atm.....sigh

I did start looming a hat but my focus is kaput and I'm all over the place.....trying to focus on good things because I am grateful for so much in my life!

Hi luvie, yep i find it almost impossible to keep myself motivated, not being able to focus is a huge factor for me. Wish i had answer, or advice even, but i just dont, so...just now you are not alone.
Oh if you find the answer let me know, k
much love
HUGS
dee

Thanks Dee......(((hugs)))

I found enough to keep me busy and even laid down for a few minutes to relax a bit....wasn't that bad a day after all. And you will be the first to know when I figure all this out!!! lol

I haven't a clue or an answer to this problem either. It's a major issue for me, I just get very little done most days through pure lack of motivation and energy which is why I make the very most of my 'up' days and just whizz around the house like a woman possessed.

The day they come up with a pill for motivation I will sing from the rooftops and I absolutely hate taking meds but for this I will totally make an exception!

You must be speaking about me Tats. I have a hard time focusing or doing anything. Like looking for employment, I have been putting it off or only applied to a couple places and never followed up. My partner literally took me job hunting today. It was easier doing it in a car, then doing it on a bus. The bus would have taken all day or I wouldn't have been able to do it all in one day. Anyway, I know how you feel and I wish I had more advice. Its hard to force yourself to do it when you can't focus. ((HUGS))

Blah... I have not been able to focus at all lately. The only thing I like to do is work out. Other than that.. my laundry is in piles and I should be really searching for new jobs since I hate mine so much, but I sit and read instead.

Thanks again peeps.....Rachyl good luck to you in your job search, I hope you find something soon!

The day is almost over and I have to say I was somewhat productive....got a hat loomed up, and some laundry done.....picked up the house. N

Now I'm getting the night time paranoia feeling that strikes me now and again....sheessh where the hell is the stop button....better yet I need one of those EASY buttons implanted on the top of my damn head!!!!! lol