This guy!

It caught me way, way, way waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay off-guard, because it was somebody from the queer/genderfluid/transgender community. I got spit on, on my own turf! What the hell?

This person added me on facebook, they were from my group, so I accepted, we talked briefly. They (I'm not sure their preferred pronoun) seemed very kind, lovely and sweet.

Then they posted a status that was like, "Cover up sweetie, no one wants to see that."

And so I deleted them, but they messaged me later. I guess They didn't noticed that I'd deleted them, so I mentioned it, I said, "Hey, that was offensive and sound slut-shame-y. I don't tolerate slut-shaming, so I off'd ya. Sorry."

and basically they were like, "Why are you offended, 'cause you're a slut and I called you on it? Lol."

And I was kind of like, "That does it, jackass. I was going to offer you help with gender dysphoria even though we aren't a good fit as friends, but that was rude, so fuck it."

And then they got kind of hysterically upset and pulled the "nice guy" card and seemed.... genuinely really embarrassed and confused.

Ugh. Weird.

After their genuine state of shock I decided to not post screenshots of the unpleasant interaction, because it led me to believe that maybe they have a mental disorder or were high or something, so it'd be unfair for me to like, embarrass them publicly when they don't even get it.

I took some Outfit Of The Day photos today, I'm chesty with a bra on sadly, so there was a big ol' slice of cleavage,

And in a fit of kind of... ridiculous "fuck it", I photoshopped a picture of Steve Buscemi over my cleavage, because I was like, "You cannot possibly de-sexualize yourself in a more hardcore way than this. Steve Buscemi is my big, rebellious 'fuck you' to calling me a slut."

Probably it would've been braver to Free The Cleavage after this incident, but I was honest about how it hurt my feelings and bruised my ego. I showed my vulnerability with a Steve Buscemi-shop.

So. Yea. Whoo. Long day. Some other stuff happened too, I'll make a separate post.

I haven't slept in more than 24 hours and had to go to the DFACS office earlier about my food stamps, the lady had such an attitude towards me and my poor ol' mum.

You'd think, "huh, shitty day," but I'm about to explain why not. (I'm making a separate post for the positive sunshiny rainbow stuff)

But don't you just hate that? I'm so tired of fighting my whole "nudity/voluptuousness does not equal sexual" case. People are starting to wake up and smell the coffee, but there are so many people who still can't grasp this concept. It's staggering and makes me so uncomfortable.

Well. I hope the person who said that to me is calm and enjoying their time now, having a nice day. I know I sure am. For the first time all day, I don't feel nauseous much. I hope they've moved on and are enjoying the rest of their day, too, because I wouldn't know one way or the other, I blocked them.