Bipolar Disorder Support Group

Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.

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Dating while bipolar

JennS
JennS
Or just trying to meet someone.

The dating world was always rough for me. The guy would be really into me one day and didn't care for me the next. I never really understood that. It's like they could shut off their feelings.

Marriage had much more stability but no guarantees.

I'm trying to online on sites that is for people with mental illnesses. The only guys that seem interested live across the country or in a different. No local guys are biting. I've corresponded with a couple of the far away guys. Better than nothing. Now one of them isn't messaging me. I haven't been badgering him. I've been playing if cool.

I just want love! I don't necessarily mean romantic love. Friends to hang out with would have great. I haven't been on a date in years. I figured I would spend the rest of my own without a partner but I now I realize I'm better with someone as long as they weren't abusive.

Getting together shouldn't be this hard.
spacekat
spacekat
I can't even maintain friendships - I don't know HOW I've stayed married for 9 years. Yes I do. My husband. Duh.
theatrediva
theatrediva
Hey I hear ya both! My 7 year relationship with my fiance is the ONLY one I have EVER had and im 35. And as far as friends? I meet people so easy but its like I eventually push them away and dont keep in touch. I have 2 close friends. But relationships are hard as hell Jenn u r right. I hope you get all that you want and deserve Jenn. I know I did it just tool like 20 years lol.
JennS
JennS
The trouble is for me, is people will ask what you do. I don't want to lie and can't find a way to word it doesn't sound suspicious. I end having to tell them about my condition. Most normies run.

Thank you everyone. Hugs.
MoobbusT
MoobbusT
I can't actually manage to be independent so a post like this is a good reminder for me to count my blessings. Thanks.
SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady
I don't know how it's done these days, Jenn. All this technology to connect us and I just seem to find a lot of superficial acquaintances but not so many friendships with emotional intimacy.

I'm struggling with my relationship right now, which is hard, too. I think it's important to be in the right relationship otherwise isolation and lack of support are still in play.

The only thing I can recommend is keep trying social things. Art class, looking on meetup.com for interests, keeping on keeping on. As for the bipolar aspect, I think there are probably understanding people out there, and I think we all need to remain hopeful about that.

Big (((((hugs)))))
bluemood82
bluemood82
I think meeting someone in real life is better. People are quick to judge online. I do,however, hope you find someone good for you :)
JennS
JennS
I think you're right, Bluemood. It better to meet someone in person. This online dating isn't cutting it.

To everyone else, thank you for your input. Hugs.
ladybugluvs
ladybugluvs
Jenn, I really feel you. I was single for 4 years and probably went on 4 dates. Like you I was focuses on online dating. Because I do not go out much. I am not a people person and I have no friends. I used to think that I would never find anyone. Until 3 months ago I finally met a man on match.com. It's a blessing to finally have someone. So the best advice I can give you is don't give up your search and prepare for lots of rejection. I hated match.com. it was stressful it felt like I was looking for a job. But you have to search every day even if you see the same faces. I promise you your not meant to be alone. God made man and woman for a reason. Please don't give up. I've been exactly where you are.
TC40
TC40
I have t been with a guy since 2004. Yes, you heard right. I broke up with the turd in 2004. In 2005 I had cancer that caused the physical part of my groin area to be disfigured and I was ashamed to have anyone see it. Then in 2007 I had cancer again unrelated to the first cancer. That resulted in a hysterectomy among removal of other stuff. So the removal of my ovaries was immediate libido killer. I have not had any interest whatsoever. That and I just don't trust anyone anymore. So, I am like the unemployment statistics..I have just dropped off the list of unemployed because I gave up.
JennS
JennS
I wish I could have the desire taken away. It would make things a little easier. Thank you everyone for your input. Big hugs.
dobiedots
dobiedots
I just glanced at the title and I thought it said "Dating White Bipolar".
And I'm thinking...who cares?
Now I get it!!!
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