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cheeting husband

crystal555
crystal555
so me and my hubby has been married for 9 yrs and he has cheeted on me twice....well ive never cheeted period...well i was down in the dumps for a while felt like he didnt love or want me and this guy showed me some attention on fb one night and my hubby caught me talkn to him...well every since the hubby has done a 360 has been treating me soooo good loving on me teln me how much he loves me...did this open his eyes to see that he couldve lost me??? just confused
KublaKhan
KublaKhan
I am a guy, never cheated on any GF, even when she cheated on me (I reasoned that we are not married, only dating - if we were MARRIED, I certainly would have a harder time with it.)

I couldn't live with myself if I ever did cheat. I, myself, would have had to simply 'come clean' and confess it to her, throw myself at her mercy and take my lumps, whatever they may be.

I am thinking that either he is realising what a wonderful, devoted, forgiving wife he is about to possibly lose, (and knows that the outcome of your suing for divorce will bite a HUGE chunk out of his arse)

or, perhaps it is coincidental to breaking up with 'other woman'

or (my hope and prayer for you) Both of the above.

You have every right to be confused, I'd get some proof - hire a detective if necessary - so if he continues the illicit affair, you will have a cannon load of evidence for your lawyer to cinch up your case should you choose to file for divorce.

-advice from just a regular schmuck.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I find people that do cheat are ALWAYS the most jealous people.. I suppose due to their own behaviour.. I hope he is doing a three sixty and gets that goose/gander issue..big hug for ya..x
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good point SunCloudJD!
deleted_user
deleted_user
My views on cheating I can say are truly my own - It takes alot (more than the act of sex) for me to call you a cheater . I just have a different fiew on it thats all
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have never cheated on any girlfriend either. This includes my wife of 30 years.

This doesn't mean that I didn't try too though. Just never had any luck in this area. lol
sndowner
sndowner
I really believe that cheating on the one who truly loves you is cheating on the one who you think that does not love you...yourself...No matter, it's always leads to an unhappy ending.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Cheating is wrong. You might find others attractive, but you always stay faithful to your spouse/partner/mate.
Cammiecat
Cammiecat
I agree with Wieder. (my new long lost twin), Cheating doesn't have to be just physical.
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