Is your grandmother your Dads mother? Perhaps he's grateful that you are caring for her by living in a challenging situation so she's not alone. Perhaps he could help with finding a senior care provider that would ease her care. With that happening, maybe you would feel moving would be less challenging. If nothing else, fill out some paper work for low income housing in your area...it usually takes about a year waiting time. I'm really glad you do get along with your Dad, maybe even calling him could be supportive...best of luck :)

Glad you had a good visit with your dad and his wife. Support from family feels great. Makes us not feel so alone.

Sometimes when I'm alone I start to think pessimistically and look at all the bad things, real or imagined. I have learned to turn my thinking around with positive self talk. A therapist helped me with this and it changed my life.

It's nice that you had some good time with family sweetie....xo

Miro, the grandma we live with is my 1st husband's mom. Their's was a very dysfunction family. My first husband hasn't been in contact with us in years. His youngest brother passed away a few years ago. The middle son got mad at his mom and hasn't spoken to her in over 20 years. She only had the 3 kids. I feel bad for her for the way her son's have cut here out of their lives. They need to help take care of here because they weren't easy to raise.

My Dad lives in the country with his long time girlfriend and her adult son with Aspergers' or high functioning Autism. That is some coincidence since my son has it.

Thank you for you're kind replies.

giving this a bump to get the board back in some order.