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WTF???????

ZanyBeeper
ZanyBeeper
I should have known better!! But, I am trusting and forgiving. So.......when I received a friends request from the very person who had disowned me as a friend a week or so ago, I accepted. Dumb me!! He has already taken back his friendship by removing me yet again and I did NOT ONE DAMN THING WRONG!!!! I sent him a hug this morning as I do most of my friends. Difference from my normal hugs is that I did not call him honey, baby, sweetie, sweetheart, etc. because I didn't want to take any chance that it could be misconstrued as something besides what it was. What I get disowned for giving somebody a damn hug?????? WTF is up with that??????? I wish him the best in life though and will try not to be so dumb and trusting again. My mistake!!!!!

Hugs,
Chelle dba Zany
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sometimes even though we try our best with people, they are just not someone who deserves or can use our affections or friendships. You cant win them all hun. If thats the way they want to be let them go.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You can please some of the people some of the time, but you can't please all of the people all of the time. You're a sweetheart. Don't sweat it ! xx
ZanyBeeper
ZanyBeeper
Thanks guys. Just need a little validation I guess. To even know that I am worthy of being a friend. I guess I have to consider it his defect instead of mine, huh?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Zanny, there is nothing wrong with being trusting and forgiving. I am the same way. If this person can not see the wonderful person you are and like you for that then they are really not worth your time. I am sorry they can't see what I see in your posts. Stay the way you are, because you are wonderful.

(((HUGS)))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Exactly. I wouldnt be as extreme as Evelyn is suggesting, people can have fall outs and make up BUT look at their behaviour and remember theyre responsable for their own actions.

If theyre doing nothing but causing you pain. Walk away
deleted_user
deleted_user
Zany, there's nothing wrong with you that I can see!
deleted_user
deleted_user
let go...i know thats like telling you with a knife in your foot to just pull it out and it's all going to be fine...but fuck whoever that is imo...sorry to say. people like that dont knwo what they want and it's hard on people like you who have to deal with it and are caring about those people.
vickybea
vickybea
((hug))
ZanyBeeper
ZanyBeeper
Thanks guys. I sent him a message asking him WTF. Told him that I was not a yo-yo that I was a real person with feelings. I doubt I will hear from him though. It's all good. I can roll with the punches. I have been doing it for years because no matter where you go most of the time you can find someone who will treat you like shit. I have had my share. Damn good thing that I am a survivor!!!!!!!
Community Leaderacuriousfish
acuriousfish
There are some crazy people here (allegedly)
ZanyBeeper
ZanyBeeper
You don't say!!!! That is a revelation!!! I gasp with surprise!! NOT!! hehehe
deleted_user
deleted_user
" WE MUST ACCEPT FINITE DISSAPOINTEMENT BUT NEVER INFINITE HOPE"

cant remember who said that but its true. NEVER let anyone change who you are. the world needs ppl like you! there are waaay too many assholes out there.

stay your sweet self. somehow, somewhere there are ppl out there worthy of your friendship and who will respect what you have to offer them and the world.
ZanyBeeper
ZanyBeeper
Awww, Daft. That was so sweet!! Thank you very much for your kind words. Now, come here girl and give me a hug!!!! YEA!!
penny59
penny59
thats a shame there loss you are always so nice.. hugs ..marie
ZanyBeeper
ZanyBeeper
Thanks Marie!! You are a sweetie too!! Hugs.
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