Sorry to hear that you are struggling alot. You should try to keep in mind that you are doing the best you can right now and more than likely doing better then you think you are. We are so hard on ourselves and that doesn't help us one bit.

Do you have anyone that could watch him for a bit and give you a break for a while so that you can have some time to yourself?

Hang in there, you are strong and will get through this, try not to be to hard on yourself.

Please don't feel terrible. I know how hard things must be for you. My nephew has asperger's as well and I see how much my sister struggles. She too gives in just to get some peace at times. I now am going though a rough time with my daughter. She was dx'd with BP and is on meds now. She will blow up over any little thing. I feel like we are walking on eggshells around her at this point But, I keep telling myself that we can't let her set the tone of the household and she does have to have consequences for her actions. It is so hard though because I know at times she has no control. I've been in her shoes.

I guess I am telling you this so you know you are not alone. I too give into her at times because I"m fearful of her reaction.

I hope you start feeling better soon. ((Hugs)) Please take care of yourself.

my nephew has ADHD and asperger's too. It is so hard for my sister and she gives in alot too. Make sure to get a break from him every once in a while, and don't feel guilty about it. I watch my sis struggle so I can kind of understand what you are going through. He is only 7 though.

You are going through a lot. Is there any way of getting some help? Maybe through the school system? Are there any support groups in your area? Are your Docs behind you? Maybe they could suggest something.

Hi, honey. Sorry you are going through such trying times. My four year old is ADD/ADHD and severe autism. I hate to even think of the tween and teen years with him. Try to get a break as often as you can..........at least once a week I would say. Is he in school? Do you have to work while he is in school or do you get to relax any during the day? My best to you!! xox

thank you everyone. this helps. :)

My son is 7, ADHD, ODD and BP. They questioned Aspergers for a little while, but ruled it out. I haven't had as much time dealing with it as you have, but I can completely relate to giving into it just to find peace and quiet for a little while.

I know routine and rules are crucial to these children, but sometimes you just need a break! Don't be too hard on yourself for giving in sometimes. We all need to try and keep our sanity too.

Hang in there hun...and if you ever need, I'll be here. (((HUGS)))