You know what I have never had my prostate checked :) (LOL) I bet it is not as bad as you think. It sounds really scary like one time I had to be catherterized and the nurse was like "I am so sorry but this is going tohurt really bad." Nope I did not even flinch and sometime other people talking about it makes it worse. Some people embellish and some don't. Well just try to think of it as a good thing :) I know my husband would be freaking out LOL Poor thing anything that comes near that area of his body freaks him out and I guess I could see why. Well it will be alright :) (((((BIG HUGS)))))

thanks.

I've had various things checked and filmed etc etc.

I understand your concern - experience is that these things are a lot less traumatic than you imagine.

Regard it as a modern version of a male rite of passage (pun inteneded). This will allow you to terrify other guys who are going in for similar things in future and who ask you for advice as the "wise one"

Hope all goes well

thanks everryone means alot.