my son was here one evening. Well actually several times but one night i saw him sitting in the computer chair with that same look he always had. My mom(his grandma) saw him walking down the hall and two times she heard him. Once he called her name and another time he made a clicking noise. I do believe that they float back and forth between heaven and earth. I always think about how Jesus came back and people saw him.
Hope that helps.
Susan

Two days after my bf was gone, he talked to me, i was sitting on the couch, watching tv, and heard a faint"hey" i sat up and looked around, and then i heard a "sigh" like maybe he thought i didnt hear him. I am trying not to think in spirit terms, b/c i am not sure it exists even now, but most of the time i feel like he is here. I sound like a crazy person i'm sure, i havent ever seen anything, just little weird stuff has been going on especially at night, while i am alone in the house. I dont want to believe it, but it is hard to ignore it.

i wrote a post about this subject maybe a month or so ago. i dont know if it happens but i hear stories all the time. i so desperatley wish i could have an experience, just so i dont feel so alone, that he is still with me. i envy those that do get an experience. i hope that you do get to see her again.

I have had three responses that give me encouragement that I will see or hear or feel my sister. That would be so awesome. I was deeply depressed but that last couple of days I have been feeling 100% or more better than the low that I was experiencing. If would be so wonderful if my sister is actually helping me in some way to cope and rebuild my life into what it once was. She was afraid that I wouldn't be strong enough to cope with her death. Perhaps she was right. My mental state has kind of proven she was rightt but somehow things are getting better for me. I don't want to crash again and I'm very scared that will happen. However I'm trying very hard to keep focused on good things. Apparently soon I will be having a new daughterinlaw. That is such a nice thing to think about. The best part of it is that I really do like her. Getting my meds again I am sure has helped too. What ever it is I am so thankful that I am feeling better.

your postings give me so much hope that my Siena will come to me and let me know she is o.k.............thank you

My brother loved music. All kinds. There are days when I hear a bunch of songs I remember him liking or hating, and I just listen. It's hard to explain, it's such a personal experience. But I've started logging it in my journal that I've kept since he died, just to see if it's relevant. You know what? 9 times out of 10 I can see something there.

Yeah. I think it happens. And why shouldn't it? Our loved ones still love us, and are still a part of our lives. Don't worry, you'll find your moments too. Just listen.

After Sammy passed I started seeing a lot of dragonflies...the first one was while I was visitng my sister. I was laying in her pool and this dragonfly landed on the bird of paradise beside the pool and just stayed there until it started to rain...I got a really good look at him, the stripes on his wings and all. I even photographed him...when it started to rain he left and I went in the house. Once the rain had passed I was back in the pool and sure enough he came back and sat on the same flower. I again photographed him to be sure...to compare....
The next one I saw was on my birthday 9 months after she passed...I didn't really want to get out of bed but for some reason I decided to go get coffee and visit Sammy...well as I pulled into the coffee shop the song sammy used as a ringtone came on the radio and at the same moment (while I was still in motion) a dragonfly landed on my hood...then my next birthday was a surprise party for me, in another sisters backyard, they pulled out a chair for me to sit on and there was a dragonfly sitting on the chair, he didn't move or fly away as the chair was moved...again I photographed him.
well now, if you are wondering where this is going here is where it will make sense...
Last week I had a session with a medium....
she asked if dragonflies had special meaning to me....I said yes....she said....Sammy sends them to you, not ever dragonfly you see...but the ones that stand out and make you say hey!
She told me MANY other things some of which even my children, sammy included didn't know.
It was amazing and I now know that Sammy although she doesn't hover over us, does watch and visit us.

Good morning my friends. My day has just started however it seems that I will feel ok today. I'm not feeling wonderful but OK. I love the responses that you are giving. They give me hope just as Sienasdad wrote.I have had such an empty feeling since my sister passed on. We were so close that I thought for sure she would communicate with me. We had made promises to each other about our communication if either of us passed on. Maybe I'm starting to heal a little from the extreme depression I have been in. Maybe she will soon touch my life. Maybe it's just that I am back on my meds. What ever it is I am feeling better and await to be touched by her.

That's beautiful Sammysmomri, I hope to go to a medium at some point.

My Dad Passed Away In January, And I Never Knew Him, But Often I Have Dreams About Him And Afew Months Back I had A Dream That Now Makes Alot Of Sence And I Now See A Clear Message In It, So Dont Give Up Hope About Your Sister Contacting You Ok, Beacause When It Does Happen It will Leave A Lasting Impression On You :) You Will Know When She Is Around, By A smell Or Even Someone Elses Voice.

My dad passed away on Dec.29th, 2007. About 4 months after he came to me in a dream (it was so real) he told me "I am okay now baby girl, I love you" I know that he as letting me know that he was at peace..I keep hoping he comes to me again..

When my dad died many years ago, he came to me in what I thought was a dream, but remember it so vividly it had to have been real. It was vvery comforting. My mom has ben gone seven monnths but havent heard from her. They contact you when they are readey: it takes a lot of energy on their part. So sorry for your loss, much love to you

One evening after crying for 8 hours. I went to bed my husband came and put him head on my chest. I said Bruce is it you he turned looked at me and just said shhhhh. It gave me great comfort.... They will come it just takes a little time and we have to pray for it. They are with us..Hugs to all

It didn't take my Dad (who passed away 5 yrs ago) that long to "get in touch" with my mom, my daughter (his only grandchild), my sister, and me. We all had dreams, and my daughter actually seen his reflection in the tv screen (tv was off at the time) and has smelled his cologne (neither my mom or me smelled it, and we were about 15 feet away from her).

Sometimes they visit in dreams; other times they will move a photo of themselves or an object they loved. I've heard they leave pennies (pay attention to the year on the penny). They will play with the electrical devices in the home. You may be thinking of a song that was her favorite and then turn on the radio, only to find the song playing at that time.

Don't "force" the experience; let it happen in its own time. I believe that those who have crossed over can hear us talking to them.

((((HUGS)))) Hope this has helped some.

After reading some posts on here about 6 weeks ago regarding pennies, I started to find the odd penny around the house (always brightly minted ones) and in the most open spaces so I could not have walked by it before as I would have realised it. It was really strange. Then one day when I got on my usual seat on the train for the commute there was a soft downy feather sitting there. There were non else where, just this bright white soft fluffy small feather staring back at me. I picked it up and sat down and placed it in my book. I felt warm and at peace all day. About 3 days after my dear man died his favorite picture fell from the wall. It had hung in that spot for 8 years without any bother. Then on the day of the funeral, at the wake, a welcome sign literally jumped off the wall and landed on the table where all the family relatives were sitting. We all just stopped talking and stared at it. Yep that would have been him, determined to make an entrance and reminding me that he was still around. I dont seek these things out, it just seems to happen at the times that Im at my most lowest. Some of the coincidences are just too much to say they are just that. I truely believe that he is still around in spirit and when Im alone I talk to him out loud - it helps me to feel safe and secure. I wish you well and I know that you too will sense this from your sister at some point.