what does a person say about sudden death? How am I suppose to react.One of the girls that I worked with found her baby dead in his crib and now all hell has broke loose.She was a stay at home mom and they really couldnt afford it.He wouldnt hear of her even working part time but they were always strapped for cash.What have i been doing? Well,in the mist of my tragedy I have been helping others.I have been giving food and clothes and money away to people who i feel need it most.These kids dont have a pot to take a leak in.They are really poor.But this guy really loves her and he doestn cheat on her at all.He is always home.Now here is the problem.In Washington...if someone dies under the age of 18....there is an autopsy dead.Her religion forbids piercing,tattos and autopsy.They are devout Orthodox Jewish people.What do I tell her? That without an autopsy people will be suspicious.What makes a 6 month girl die? All I know is that she took the baby to the doctor.She was running a fever and didnt look good.She felt warm and she was rushed to this doctor.And since Brad dead,I am trying to keep up the house and the cats.I no longer feed the 35 cats.I have been feeding the birds.When i heard about this babys death,i cried for half an hour.This ladys religions also forbids vaccinations.What can I say to her? How do I comfort her? What does anyone say about sudden death?
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