I am so very sorry for your loss.

I guess you can add me to the list of people who don't know what you are going through.

But then it is very possible that you don't know what I am going through either.

But that should not stop us from supporting each other.

My loss are compounded: in the last 5 years I have lost my birth family: my only sibling (sister), mother and father. In that order. All in the month of August (my birth month), just different years. Nobody to sit with and remember "that Christmas in the mountains at the resort that was going out of business" Or hundreds of other events in my life that are important to me.

No matter how long or short you were married I am sure that you have your hundreds of memories that you long to have him to share them with. So yes, I get that part. But I don't understand the loss of a spouse. I may have helped dad through the loss of mom, but my brother in law was better at it, he had lost his wife (dad's daughter and my sister) recently and the pains of it were still with him.

So we will share your load, and ask you to help share our load. And somewhere in the process we will both have a lighter load, and we will both understand each other's load better.

Gentle hugs, and welcome to our group. I am truly sorry for the reasons that have brought you here, but pleased to meet you.

Thank you for your kind words. I too have lost people in this world who ment a lot to me... but your right, it is not the same when it is your life mate.

Huge hug for you MrsB......I am so very sorry for your loss.... I haven't lost a partner either
There is a wonderful Widows and Widowers board on this site for people who have lost their partner....I have put up a post on it and it contains a link to the board... You will have many people on there to talk to who understand and want to support you.... Another hug and a blessing....xo

I am sorry for your loss. This is a good place, people here are kind. Welcome.

My heart goes out to you, I myself feel like I'm too young to be a widow I lost the love of my life on September 8th 2016. My sincere condolences to you..ando like you, I am too young to be a widow :((

I lost my husband in September. And no nobody understands if they haven't gone through it. I'm only 34 and we have two children and it gets so hard thinking about all the time I have left on this earth without him and everything he'll miss. I replay that night in my head as well. Constantly. So so many different thoughts. I'm very sorry for you and if you would like to talk I'm here.

Lost my fiance in September, cancer. Got his diagnosis in March and I remember the world terminal. Two years or longer with the treatmenteam. Six months later, gone. Stay busy, cry, scream, just don't keep it inside or it will destroy you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers hon.

I lost my wife two weeks ago of medical reason and i what u are going thru. I also try to keep busy and try to find anyone one on my contact list to talk to. but I what helping is this site . Don't get me wrong I'm still hurting and in pain but I know if need to just rant or understand things I post my feeling here.

Welcome. It's the only positive word I can think of to say.

Im 31 and lost my husband 5 weeks ago. It sucks. You are not alone. I'm finding the groups very helpful esp the widows and widowers group. Reading everyone's stories makes you realize you are not alone and and you can make it through.

I am sorry for your loss , I wish I had the right words to comfort you.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish there were words or something I could suggest to make it all easier. It just is and does stink. I to felt to young to be a widow or to have lost a son. What I found for me was I've grown spiritually and emotionally....can't always say it's great growth....but I see the world different than a lot of people. So I wish you strength and energy on your journey.