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My dad died earlier this year. He had been medically fragile and multiple serious health issues before he died. I am the one who gave him the cold that put him in the hospital. I was sick constantly from jan-May and tried to stay away from him as much as possible. But in march I went home and he was in the hospital the next weekend. He was in the hospital for 5 weeks and died in there.
Now my mom keeps saying, "you killed your father" and stuff like that and it hurts soo much. I keep thinking, he would still be here if I didn't go home. She says she is only joking and doesn't mean it, but has said it many times.
I blame myself and miss him a lot. Maybe it is my fault.
I wish christmas would go away, I can't do holidays this year, hurts too much.
Now my mom keeps saying, "you killed your father" and stuff like that and it hurts soo much. I keep thinking, he would still be here if I didn't go home. She says she is only joking and doesn't mean it, but has said it many times.
I blame myself and miss him a lot. Maybe it is my fault.
I wish christmas would go away, I can't do holidays this year, hurts too much.
Allow yourself to grief and if that means taking a break from the holidays, just do it.
Talking to a support group or councillor can help when you are ready . We are all here if you need to talk, vent, cry etc...