While I know there are sick ppl out there masking as Psychics and Mediums, I do appreciate the legitimate ones. You are right about getting a reading, you have no control over who comes through or what they might have to say.

I went to see John Edward last week, I found it to be an amazing experience. My husband and I were not read, but the experience brought me closer to my lost loved ones in different ways.

Yeah I'm kind of scared or worried incase I do attend one and it is some sicko taking the mick. Coz it is really emotional and I just want to go to see if it can help me any. I guess I want some kind of closure and to know that he is at peace =/ thanks for ur comment =)

My cousin passed away 2 + years ago, and my Aunt has been regularly seing a Medium over the last 1 1/2 years. It has been agreat experience for my Aunt and has really helped her in her greif for her son.

My Mom passed away in September and my aunt has been asking me to go with her since 3 days after my Mom's passing. I still think it may be a but to soon for me.

However I do see how it can be helpful in the healing process and will be going once I feel stong enough too.

Yeah it might be a bit too soon. Sorry to hear of your loss. My ex passed away in April this year it took months for things to "settle down" although it still really has'nt but I guess it is better. STill have shitty days though. But now I am 100% totally feeling serious and up to going to see a psychic. Guess you just know when the time is right for yourself =) I am actually now really looking forward to going.

Don't do it. I became addicted. You'll constantly feel unsettled and want more answers. I spent $4000 already and feel sick to my stomach. I just started a group on line for psychic addicts. If you'd like, feel free to send others here. Don't do it though. It won't help you in any way!

I have had my own experiences and I know the real messages I have gotten in dreams and things that God has allowed me to have to comfort me. I was a huge fan of Sylvia Browne until I went to see her. There were so many broken hearted people who had paid over $100 a seat - some $300 a seat to see her. They are wanting to ask her about a lost loved one or a missing person, some came from miles and miles away. But she drew numbers from a hat and people were asking her = how many angels do I have or what will I be when I get out of college. While people are literally praying for a chance to ask her about a lost child. I knew right then it was just about the money. I just do not think someone who has the power to bring you peace and comfort would bypass you to tell some guy he has 3 angels following him around. Just my humble opinion. I had read every one of her books. I was a memeber of her website. I stopped that very night. It broke my heart.

I had a phone reading done by patrick mathews,he is a medium and it was great he wants you to record it because with everything you are being told is so overwhelming some of it wo'nt make sense until you later on have time to go back and listen to it than it does.I know there are fakes out there but with him he told me things(personal) only my husband and I knew,so there was no chance that could have been a coincedence.well he also has a book out never say goodbye and let me say after reading that it gave me such good feelings and made me know our loved ones are always with us.

I've thought about it too. I wouldn't want to see a psychic to make sure Sandy is okay, I know she is. I want to know all the details of the last 15 minutes or so of her life. There is only one person alive that knows those details and he's still pleading not guilty. Am I crazy for wanting to know?

Hi, I first went to a meeting called "joining of two worlds" with my daughter. It was a group of about 40 people and my husband came through. What she told me was amazing, i was very sceptical and did not give her any information. She even told me the day we met. (i had to go home and check his passport) she was right. I have since had a private reading with this medium and my husband came through. It was amazing i felt i had spent the most wonderful hour with him. It was recorded on tape and i can now sit and listen and feel he is around me. My daughter listened to it and felt she couldnt get enough. She gave me so much peace, at first i was believe or don't believe if you get peace and comfort then its right. I cant wait to go back and spend some more time with my husband. Unfortunately i live in Australia so she wont be much help to you but find someone there and go for it.

I went to a medium about 6 weeks after my dad died. Way too soon! However, it was a terrific experience and I plan on doing it again.

I think a lot of people have negative opnions about the process becaus they feel people are trying to skip the grieving process. I can fully say that while it helped bring me peace, i still cry everyday! I would recommend the process though.

DO YOUR RESEARCH FIRST. There are a lot of fakes out there, but there are some pretty incredible ones too

What do you mean your loved one "came through'?

My husband passed in Feb, 2010. He spoke to me through the medium.( come through is the term mediums use) He would tell her things and she repeated them to me. It's something you believe or don't but she surprised me with the things she new. She answered some questions i had about his passing and told me of things i had been doing where he was watching over me. If you want to know that your father is o.k and if he is watching over you, then i think it would help you to see a medium. You do need to be careful in your choice of a medium and you do need to feel comfortable with them. If you have any other question please ask.

I miss my dad a great deal but I don't think I could handle him coming thru anyone. Not only would it scare me but I am lucky enough to be able to say I have no unfinished business with the man. I hate that he left this world but I know he was ready to go and had been for a long time. I can't even begin to put into words the void his passing put in my life but I just don't know if I could do that. I have been to a psychic before but that was only for my own life questions and it was a positive experience but I think I will leave the medium thing alone.

Thank you for answering my question for me about what "Came Through" means.

Tracy

I believe in mediums because my grandmother is one and it is a gift that runs in my family. That being said, there are such people who truly are gifted, but I believe most are full of it. If you decide to go through with it, research the person well and make sure this is someone who knows what they are talking about. Most are scams. You have to go with your heart. If you are feeling upset or stressed by what the "psychic" is telling you, its not an authentic reading. When the dead come through (and they do not always comes through) they want to bring you comfort and make sure you are happy. They do not wish to upset you or cause you grief in your present life. Speaking to the dead should not bring new problems, only closure. I hope I helped some, good luck.

Hi Tracy, My biggest fear when i first went to the "meeting group" was the fear of acceptance. I knew the facts of his passing but knowing the facts and accepting them are very different. I still struggle 10mths later with the reality of a life time without him. Maybe it was him that drew me there so he could help me i don't know but i was scared. i understand your feelings i felt like you when my mum passed and although it was her wish i missed her heaps. In Dennis's case i know it wasn't his wish to leave us. I just needed to know he was o.k. and i was desperate for some form of communication with him. You need to stick with what is best for you. Thinking of you Wendy