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KellyLee105 09/14/2010

Two weeks before my son Ryan past over to the other side, I was cutting his hair in my Hair Salon,which I have down in my cellar,after I was done cutting his hair he said "Thank You Mom" and I replied back "No Problem, I'll sweep the hair up so you can take a shower", Now I'm alone looking down at the floor as I was sweeping the hair up, this hugh Overwhelming feeling came across me, it was a perect clear vision of this painting of (The Last Supper). I said to myself "Wow where did that come from, and what is the reason for having a vision like that" ? It was a feeling that something was wrong, and I Did"nt know what, So I shook my head and tried to block it out of my head, as time went by I put it on the back burner. The following weekend I took my Mom, Ryan and my daughter Erica out to dinner at a Chinese food Restaurant, we had fun talking and laughing,but I still felt alittle Overwhelmed, I was happy that we went and spent time together. The following weekend on friday I was getting out of work, It was Good Friday,Easter weekend. I was thinking about taking my kids out to dinner again, but I went over to my boy friends house for a while, I just did'nt feel right, still feeling like something was wrong, I decided to go home and see what the kids were up to,when I got home , my Mom Said "you missed Ryan and Erica,they went off somewhere,but they did'nt say where" I was so disapointed that I missed them, I felt tired so I laid down on my bed. Like I said it was 'Good Friday" Easter weekend April 14,2006, The next morning on April 15,2006 Ryan had died from a accidental drug overdose. It was the worst day of my life ...That day my best friend Marie had called me to say how sorry she was for Ryan's death and if there was anything she can do to help. Nothing at that point could help,other than someone being there to talk to. So I told her about this Overwhelming feelings, and the vision of the painting ( The Last Supper ),Then I told her we went out to dinner the week end before Ryan died. She replied back "Kelly that was The Last Supper". Then I thought about it, Ryan died on Easter weekend just like Jesus did........Now I' tired, I'll share more later, I have to spend some time with my daughter, I'll write some more Intuitions and Premonitions later...Hope to here from all my friends!!!! XOXO KELLY

deleted_user 09/14/2010

Kelly,

I've had experiences similar to yours. When my kids were little I had a dream my middle son fell out of the back of my pick up truck. When I went to him he was laying in a ditch, bloody. At the time he was visiting his Grandmother up here in the Midwest, which is where my dream took place. A few weeks later I went to pick him up from his Father's and him and his brothers were talking and one of them said "When Andy got hit by that car....." and I knew that's what my dream was about.

Another time I was playing with my Tarot Cards, something I used to do for fun & entertainment. I was reading the cards of my 75 year old best friend and a certain card came up and I started crying. She died two months to the day later. I never looked at those cards again.

There is something scary, but also a little comforting, in knowing that you knew, even if there was nothing you could do about it. Your bonds were so strong that you knew.

I know it's not much, but just know that your bond with your son, the love you had for each other, went beyond everyday life and deep into your souls.

Kari

deleted_user 09/14/2010

I've often had feelings of things that were going to happen and dreams too. When my dad was dying of cancer I was in Portland, Oregon where I took my Dental Assistant training and was driving home and a cloud of despair came over me and I knew something wasn't right. That night my dad had died of his 9 month ordeal with cancer. When I've been let go from jobs I had in the past I always knew it was coming. And I also have known when loved ones have died even before it has happened.

I think it's God just preparing us that he's taking our loved ones back home again to tell the truth. May your son be in peace and you too.

KellyLee105 09/14/2010

Thank you for your experience. I love sharing these stories it helps me build up faith and keeps me positive.......

deleted_user 09/15/2010

I had a similar experience... on the morning my Mom died I was in the shower getting ready for work and started sobbing uncontrollably and I had this feeling that something bad was going to happen.

Then I got the phone call later that afternoon that my Mom had been hit by a car and died.

I've had many other experiences with listening to my intuition or guardian angels or gut feeling... whatever you call it. I've started studying working with angels, spirit guides and really listening to God.

It has given me a lot of comfort and joy to know that my Mom is really still alive but just not in body... but I still cry and miss her tremendously

Blessings

deleted_user 09/23/2010

I had one premonition once. It was about 6 months before my sister died. She had called me and left a message on my cell phone while I was in a store. When I got out of the store, I listened to the message and had the most overwelming feeling of death. Thats the only was to describe it. I was so terrified that I called my Mom instead of calling my sister back and I told her about it. I was crying and freaking out. Something about her message just felt like death. She wasnt sick and there was no reason for me to think that. But she died 6 months later and I knew that had been my warning, so to speak.

deleted_user 09/23/2010

I have had vague premonitions in the past. New Year's eve of 2008 I had a strong feeling of despair and as the clock rang in 2009, I knew that my husband was going to die. He had health problems but was ok at the time. I put it out of my head and when my F-I-L passed in February I thought I had understood it wrong, but the feeling of despair stayed with me. My husband passed in August. I don't understand these premonitions all the time. I have relatives who have this as well so I guess it runs in families..

duane 09/23/2010

Kelly, I have had a similar experience before my brother passed away. When he hugged me before he left my house it felt like it would be the last time I would ever feel him again. When I was younger I would dream of the future and I could not figure out why Duane was not there...when he died it was like a dream coming true.

koolman 09/24/2010

I definitely had a similar vision of my brother dying in a bed. I saw him in the back bedroom of his trailer, though, not in the hospital like what actually transpired. Was disturbing, to say the least.

Now I'm periodically, drumroll, please, seeing visions of my own death. How shall it be, Lord? A massive heart attack? Stroke? Slow, agonizing rot of cancer? Some infection? I'm trying to embrace the Dark Side, to keep me strong, and keep me here, because I'm not ready to go yet. Want to kick this world's ass a few more times before it kicks mine.

shur1 09/25/2010

I had one experience that prepared me to what was to come in the near future I was in my apartment and fell asleep but this dream was what i call a real dream i was inside my apartment and the curtain string on the window floated up in the air and I knew i was in my apartment all my possessions were layed out on the floor neatly i got up from my chair and began to walk down the hallway when all of a sudden the wall opened up and when i looked I saw the virgin Mary standing in a nitch with her arms extended out she did not move or speak but was filled with crystal beads draped on her arms everywhere my boyfriend in my dream walked by me and i told him to look he quickly looked and grabbed a few beads and she quickly disappeared that was a sign of things to come my aunt passed away in her sleep and my uncle her husband passed away 3 years later, my cousins 3yr old baby died drowning in a pool 3 days before my father passed and my boyfriends mother passed away i believe it was a sign that much sadness was to come and lots of prayers were to be said in the future and it turned out that a lot of sadness did arrive and many Prayers were said and still are for now my boyfriends sister is in her last years of life.

god bless you all

deleted_user 09/25/2010

My husband and I owned 12.5 acres in the Adirondacks. Eventually we were going to build a home there and retire one day. We were up "on the land", having just put a driveway in and were having a barn built so we could camp there sometime. I said to him, "you know, I don't think we will ever really live here". On August 11th. he died suddenly.

I don't know what made me feel that way that day up on the land

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